Is this confession/absolution valid?

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I went to confession today and after I said my sins the priest said “I absolve you. Say one Our Father and an Act of Contrition when you have time. Bye-bye.” That was all he said. It was super rushed and the first time that I can remember that the normal protocol of absolution wasn’t followed. No one was in imminent danger of death, I think he was just trying to hear as many people before Mass as possible. 2 sins I confessed were mortal. Do you think I received absolution or should I repeat the confession? Thank you!
 
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I went to confession today and after I said my sins the priest said “I absolve you. Say one Our Father and an Act of Contrition when you have time. Bye-bye.” That was all he said. It was super rushed and the first time that I can remember that the normal protocol of absolution wasn’t followed. No one was in imminent danger of death, I think he was just trying to hear as many people before Mass as possible. 2 sins I confessed were mortal. Do you think I received absolution or should I repeat the confession? Thank you!
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Ask the priest.
If you can’t ask the priest, go to another one.
Listen to your priest. If there is some defect, it is not your fault.
Trust your priest.
 
The essential words required from the priest are “I absolve you”. However the priest should not be cutting down the confession in this manner. He is obliged to say the full absolution.
 
You received absolution. The only requirement for validity are the words “I absolve you”.

I agree with the other comment that one should trust one’s priest. His reasons for being rushed may be perfectly reasonable. You can’t reasonably infer that nobody in the line was in imminent danger of death. Perhaps he recognized a penitent in the line who he knows is suicidal and wanted to be sure he made time for him or her. Perhaps he just had to go to the bathroom really bad. Priests are human too.
 
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Some priests will whisper the formula of absolution while the penitent is making the act of contrition. That may very well be what occurred. In any event, you can simply make an act of contrition at the time you realize that you have sinned. The Lord will not strike you down just as you reach the door of the parish. I would just ask in a friendly way at your next confession.
 
If I am not mistake, a priest once told me that the main words for a proper absolution is , I absolve you, In the name of the Father, of the Son and of the Holy Spirit".
 
Yes, it’s valid.

“I absolve you” is the essential form for Absolution…

The Priest must have been in a pretty big rush if that’s what he did.

Irregular, yes.

Invalid, no.

@FrDavid96 would this be considered valid but illicit? Or both valid and licit but just irregular and maybe a bit imprudent?
 
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If I am not mistake, a priest once told me that the main words for a proper absolution is , I absolve you, In the name of the Father, of the Son and of the Holy Spirit".
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In Nomine Patris, et Filii, et Spiritus Sancti (in the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit) are not essential Form for Absolution in the Sacrament of Penance.

The essential form for Absolution in the Sacrament of Reconciliation and Penance is “Ego te absolvo” - I absolve you.

Technically, you could walk into a Confession and the Priest not say a word, make your Confession, and then the Priest could say “I absolve you!” then run away without ever saying anything but these three words, and the Absolution would be valid still.
 
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That is good to know. I feel better now. Thank you for sharing your knowledge! I am grateful for the body of Christ and how we can help one another learn.
 
Sorry I wasn’t clearer, what I meant was that we weren’t in a burning building or a crashing airplane. I was trying to convey that it was seemingly a normal confession before noon Mass. As you say though, he has his reasons, which don’t matter to me. All I need to know is that I’m absolved. I’ve just never encountered this before so I didn’t know what to think. It is nothing against him, I only know him to be a good priest.
 
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Yes, it’s valid.

“I absolve you” is the essential form for Absolution…

The Priest must have been in a pretty big rush if that’s what he did.

Irregular, yes.

Invalid, no.

@FrDavid96 would this be considered valid but illicit? Or both valid and licit but just irregular and maybe a bit imprudent?
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Don’t use the word 'irregular" as that has its own meaning in canon law, not related to this topic. Still, irregular in the typical sense of the word, yes.

It would be “illicit” in the sense of not following the prescribed ritual which the law requires, but not an “illicit sacrament”

A priest should not be doing this. However, I don’t know the exact circumstances. If there’s some good reason for doing it, it’s still valid.

Is a large number of penitents good reason? Typically no.

If the large number was unusual and the priest was caught off-guard? Maybe he typically has 10 people but he looked out and saw 40 so he knew he had to be quick? I’m just speculating.

I would rather see a priest do it this way (quick) because at least there is individual confession and individual absolution, than to see one who (possibly wrongly) uses the general (ie group) absolution without individual confession.

The important point is that what the OP described is a valid absolution.

I’ll be the first to insist on following the rite itself as much as possible. I do not know why this priest seemed to be in such a hurry. Let us just hope he had a good reason.

The OP did say he was trying to hear as many confessions as possible before Noon Mass. Advent is typically a time when more people go to confession, and the priest might very well be surprised by the number.
 
I come from a small parish where the Confession lines are short but, when I moved to a larger parish, Reconciliation was offered before mass and the lines were very long. I noticed when the lines were very long the priest would have us say the Act of Contrition outside the confessional and a very short absolution. I believe this is so that everyone in line can confess and be absolved before Father has to begin Mass.
 
Father I am sorry for the delay in thanking you. It is a great comfort to know that my sins were in fact forgiven. Thank you for taking the time to post, it is a blessing to the community here.
 
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