Is this sinful, ladies?

[psalm42]

It’s not really off topic if you think about what society wants in a person (to be vain and worried about if you’re good enough) and what God wants for you (to be the person He wants you to be…the one He created). It’s to show that we can feel a bit insecure to a point, but when it comes down to it, God provides all, knows all, sees all, and loves all for who we are and He wants us to see others as well as ourselves for who we really are inside and out…perfect in His eyes. No surgery can give you that.

Yeah, that’s true. I don’t even know where I got lost thinking I needed to be vain to have any power!? HOW CONCEITED AND LOW IS THAT?! I think it was one of those phases a lot of us tend to go through. I am working on the person God created me to be and trying to get my happiness from Him because only He can fully do that

I also think a lot of emphasis is placed that women only worry about their looks, when I think that some men do too. Well, I know some men do, and it is sort of annoying! I have a friend who is shorter, for a man, and his fiance is maybe a couple inches taller. But he was always worried about his looks and wanting to land a lady. I think it was because he had a low self-esteem thinking he needed to be taller and over emphasized his outer looks by body building, etc…and he would tell me this too…when I just wanted to tell him to stop! trying to be what you think girls want you to be! It was annoying. So I am sure some guys think women are, too.

 

[Calliso]

Countrysinger I am sure you are a very beautiful and attractive woman. I mean who the heck cares if your not some size 2 barbie doll. I mean think about this do you think all us women here and heck all the women in the world that are married or dating a guy look like the models you see in magazines and tv? I mean I know personally I look nothing like that! Heck I would have to be a skeleton to be a size 2 probably. I met my husband online he fell in love with me before he even knew what I looked like! Believe me though you donlt want a relationship which is based mostly on how good you look. That will eventually just be an empty and sad relationship. And really look at some of those people that have had procedure after procedure done…they donlt look good…some of them look down right awful to be frank.