You said:
.“so yes I do compare some immodest dressed women to some pornstars for …”
Have you any idea what you are saying. Your opinion that some female porn stars do it for attention is utter rubbis. To liken women who you think dress immodestly to porn stars is wrong, wrong wrong, uncharitable, unnChristian and certainly not something that I would expect to see in CAF.
No, I do not see what you see. Unlike you, I make the assumption that most men and women are basically good.
Well it’s sad that you think it’s perfectly okay for society to objectify women and turn them into objects for man’s selfish desires. You think it’s okay women are lied to and told that dressing immodestly is sending a good message to men. Your line of thinking I would say is wrong.
I’ll say this before I part ways for tonight. Next time you see a woman dressed in improper clothing, look at her as if she was your daughter and ask yourself “Is that how I want my daughter to dress, where men are looking at her lusting after her and having disgusting fantasies about her and treating her as an object rather than a child of God?”
I think most women and men strive and desire to be good but we all stumble every now and then and that’s why we need repentance and forgiveness…however some people choose to reject God and live lives estranged from Him…and I believe many are living lives that reject God and are completely oblivious to it and that’s the biggest travesty.
As for the pornstar comment, do not judge these women and think that they are “evil” and improper dressed women are “good” both are people who are being deceived by society to live a life contrary to what God wants. Most pornstars are women crying out for help and they need our charity and forgiveness…because many were abused at a young age and are in a warped mindset about sex and love…for someone chastising me for being uncharitable YOU SIR should be ashamed of yourself…they are just as deserving of Christ’s love and forgiveness as you and I are.
My point in dressing immodestly and acting immodestly is that it doesn’t hurt the man or the woman…It hurts both, it leads both to sin and estranges both away from Christ.
You call me unChristian because I am saddened and disgusted at the way women are objectified by society, something you obviously do not have a problem with…to that I say YOU need to repent and seek for Christ. The way society treats women as sexual objects instead of Children of God is un-Christian and if you can’t see that then you are completely blind by Satan.
My guess is you are numbed to the flagrant amount sexual images in society because you live in sexual sin as I have been. I used to be able to walk past an improper dressed woman, watch sex scenes on television and movies, and view highly-sexualized advertisements because I was constantly viewing pornography and engaging in sin that I had become numb to it. Now that I am turning my life over to Christ I am starting to see how sad and depraved society has become and how I lived my life. My guess is you are in denial about the way women are objectified in society because you are living in that sin…I will pray that you turn to Christ and repent.
I am not one to bark like this…I do not like confrontation and I desire friendship with all, but for you to hurl such callous insults at me, I am forced to be confrontational in this manner. I am not angry, I am just disappointed you would say such things to me and that you have such a warped and misguided view of me. If I am wrong on anything I have said I will pray tonight and ask God to tell me if I was wrong in what I’ve said. I may have confused you with my harsh, unrestrained, strong, crude, graphic, vulgar use of language but this is how I speak sometimes. So I’m setting the record straight with this.
I do not believe that women should be treated like cattle as they do in the Mid East for they are just as equally important as man and do not deserve to be treated as such and reserved to the status of a second-class citizen by being forced to cover themselves head to toe because their men are afraid of them, neither do I believe women should be treated like cattle as they do in the West where it is permissible and encouraged that men look at women as objects and that women are encouraged to view themselves as objects all-the-while being lied to and being told that they are “liberated” when they do so…they are not, they are just as imprisoned as those poor unfortunate souls who walk around covered in a cloak. For they are being denied the joys of Christ.
I fear I am going to regret posting this, but I also feel compelled to say it. I feel you and Walking Home have gravely insulted me and are attempting to demean my character and honor, by making it appear that I have no respect for women and I have to stand up and refute such ridiculous and unjust accusations.
