Hi All
In reference to the inequality of male and female within Islam let me quote ‘ONLY SOME’ on what Mohammad (and the early biographers) had to say about women and paradise. (quotes from
thereligionofpeace.com and
prophetofdoom.com)
Bukhari:V1B22N28
“**The Prophet said: ‘I was shown the Hell Fire and the majority of its dwellers were women **who are disbelievers or ungrateful.’ When asked what they were ungrateful for, the Prophet answered, ‘All the favors done for them by their husbands.’”
Muslim:B1N142
"‘
O womenfolk, you should ask for forgiveness for I saw you in bulk amongst the dwellers of Hell.'
Abu Dawud At-Tayalisi recorded that Anas said that the Messenger of Allah said,
<In Paradise, the believer will be given such and such strength for women.>
Anas said, "I asked, 'O Allah’s Messenger! Will one be able to do that? He said,
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He will be given the strength OF A HUNDRED (MEN)> At-Tirmidhi also recorded it and said, “Sahih Gharib.” Abu Al-Qasim At-Tabarani recorded that Abu Hurayrah said that the Messenger of Allah was asked, "
O Allah’s Messenger! Will we have sexual intercourse with our wives in Paradise?" He said,
Bukhari:V3B48N826
"
The Prophet said, ‘Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?’ The women said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘This is because of the deficiency of a woman’s mind.’"
Ishaq:584
"Tell the men with you who have wives: never trust a woman."
Bukhari:V4B52N143V5B59N523
“When we reached Khaybar, Muhammad said that Allah had enabled him to conquer them. It was then that the beauty of Safiyah was described to him. Her husband had been killed, so Allah’s Apostle selected her for himself. He took her along with him till we reached a place called Sad where her menses were over and he took her for his wife, consummating his marriage to her, and forcing her to wear the veil.’”
Tabari IX:113
"Allah permits you to shut them in separate rooms and to beat them, but not severely. If they abstain, they have the right to food and clothing.
Treat women well for they are like domestic animals and they possess nothing themselves. Allah has made the enjoyment of their bodies lawful in his Qur’an."
Finally, you may not have read this one regarding Mohammad wedding the Virgin Mary in paradise, well read this from Ibn Kathir, to see for yourself:
“The Messenger of God … said, **‘God MARRIED ME IN PARADISE TO MARY THE DAUGHTER OF 'IMRAN **and to the wife of Pharaoh and the sister of Moses.’ (Tabarani)” (Ibn Kathir, Qisas al-Anbiya [Cairo: Dar al-Kutub, 1968/1388], p. 381- as cited in Aliah Schleifer’s Mary The Blessed Virgin of Islam [Fons Vitae; ISBN: 1887752021; July 1, 1998], p. 64; bold and capital emphasis ours)
The late Iranian Islamic scholar, Ali Dashti, wrote:
… According to the Cambridge Tafsir, the word thayyebat (widows or divorcees) refers to Pharaoh’s wife Asiya, and the word virgins (abkar)
refers to Jesus’ mother Mary, both of whom are waiting to be married to the Prophet Mohammad in heaven. (Dashti, 23 Years: A Study of the Prophetic Career of Mohammad [Mazda Publishers, Costa Mesa, CA 1994], p. 138)
(bold, underline and Caps emphasis mine)
answering-islam.de/Main/Shamoun/mary.htm
God bless