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It is a lot easier to give a check to an organization than it is to look at the person standing there in the grocery store and reach in your purse for a few dollars.We only give to organizations that we believe in and have done research on. I will not give to an organization that I’m unfamiliar with, though I may familiarize myself and then give.
My aversion to being asked for money while I’m at the grocery store has absolutely nothing to do with my actual generosity.
With the organization, you have no personal interaction. You just write a check and feel like you’ve done your good deed. It’s not a bad way to give, it’s just not a very high level of giving, no matter how much your check is. It doesn’t cost you anything emotionally.
When you deal with a person one on one, that’s where the rubber meets the road. You see how they got to where they are, you may know the bad choices they have made, and yet you still try and help. You give from your heart and you give from your wallet. This is a higher level form of giving.