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I think it is also important to note that this issue does not affect the personal salvation of adults. If you are old enough to wonder if you are past the age of reason, you are already past it.
Furthermore, as a Weslyean, I recognize Tradition as being valuable and instructive - especially in areas where Scripture is not totally clear - as long as Tradition is not contradicted by Scripture.
In 2 Sam 12, David is dealing with the aftermath of his adultery. The Lord has already told him the the child will die. He fasted and wept until the child died. His servants were worried about him - but when the child died, he got up bathed, dressed and ate. When asked about the change, this is what he said:
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(2 Sam 12:22 NIV) He answered, "While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept. I thought, ‘Who knows? The LORD may be gracious to me and let the child live.’
(2 Sam 12:23 NIV) But now that he is dead, why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? **I will go to him, *but he will not return to me."
The most natural interpretation of this verse is that David expected to see his child in heaven.
We also reason from the nature of God. He who sent his Son to die for the sins of the whole world - yes, we DO NOT believe in limited atonement. In addition we know that it is God’s will that everyone be saved (it’s our sinful will that gets in the way of that):
(2 Pet 3:9 NIV) The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.
We also know a great deal about how the Lord feels towards children:
(Mat 19:14 NIV) Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”
So, the question is: What about people who are not capable of choosing to accept or reject the Lord’s offer of forgiveness and new life in Christ?
I think the answer is obvious: Until they are capable of choosing, the Lord chooses for them. Is there a verse that directly says this? No. Is there a lot of Scriptural data that strongly suggests this? Absolutely.
When is that age of accountability? I think it varies a great deal between individuals. My oldest biological dughter was four years old when she hopped up in my lap and asked if she could “ask Jesus into my heart”. Pastor “Dad” was very suspicious that she really didn’t understand. About 10 minutes worth of questions proved that Dad was wrong and that she most certainly DID UNDERSTAND. She prayed at that time, and three years later, she asked to be baptized.
This brings up another question: Accountable for what? My personal, pastoral opinion is that all of us are accountable for what we understand. Kids who are raised in the church gradually come to a full understanding of the faith. In the case of my son, he waited well into his teens to decide. He made his choice when he was 17 - I had the honor of Baptizing him. (BTW, we both Baptize and Dedicate children - according to the parents wishes and beliefs).
Thank you for being so kind and respectful! I do need to point out that at this point I am not actually a Pastor, as I am disabled/retired. I am still an ordained elder in good standing and a Chaplain in the Civil Air Patrol (USAF Aux.). Still many folks do call me Pastor because it is easierPastor Vince,
Cool, let’s talk about it!I must respectfully take exception to the notion that Evangelicals (and all Protestants) base their beliefs regarding the core of doctrine on Scripture alone.
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](http://www.nae.net/church-and-faith-partners/what-is-an-evangelical)The NAE defines an Evangelical
Fair enough, my denomination is part of NAE. I will point out that my definition of “grace through faith” is wide enough to encompass many Catholics.as one who holds to “the belief that lives need to be transformed through a “born-again” experience and a life long process of following Jesus” through obedience to the Bible and that the Evangelical position is that this comes by grace through faith.
Here is were I beg to differ. It would be more accurate to say that some Evangelicals - including Weslyeans like me. Others would take the position that anyone who dies without being personally converted is lost, no matter what their age.However, it is evident that children, the mentally infirm, and the like are not capable of faith. Thus, Evangelicalism depends on the concept of an age of reason to complete its soteriology.
I think it is also important to note that this issue does not affect the personal salvation of adults. If you are old enough to wonder if you are past the age of reason, you are already past it.
Furthermore, as a Weslyean, I recognize Tradition as being valuable and instructive - especially in areas where Scripture is not totally clear - as long as Tradition is not contradicted by Scripture.
In addition to Tradition, we are permitted to reason based of the Scriptural data we do have.The problem is that nowhere in the Bible is there stated to be an age of reason. Instead, the Scriptures are firm that we are conceived in sin (Psalm 51) and that all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23). To insert an asterisk that states that those who have not yet accepted Christ as their Lord and Savior through no fault of their own can nevertheless be saved is seemingly to go against those passages.
In 2 Sam 12, David is dealing with the aftermath of his adultery. The Lord has already told him the the child will die. He fasted and wept until the child died. His servants were worried about him - but when the child died, he got up bathed, dressed and ate. When asked about the change, this is what he said:
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(2 Sam 12:22 NIV) He answered, "While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept. I thought, ‘Who knows? The LORD may be gracious to me and let the child live.’
(2 Sam 12:23 NIV) But now that he is dead, why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? **I will go to him, *but he will not return to me."
The most natural interpretation of this verse is that David expected to see his child in heaven.
We also reason from the nature of God. He who sent his Son to die for the sins of the whole world - yes, we DO NOT believe in limited atonement. In addition we know that it is God’s will that everyone be saved (it’s our sinful will that gets in the way of that):
(2 Pet 3:9 NIV) The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.
We also know a great deal about how the Lord feels towards children:
(Mat 19:14 NIV) Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”
So, the question is: What about people who are not capable of choosing to accept or reject the Lord’s offer of forgiveness and new life in Christ?
I think the answer is obvious: Until they are capable of choosing, the Lord chooses for them. Is there a verse that directly says this? No. Is there a lot of Scriptural data that strongly suggests this? Absolutely.
When is that age of accountability? I think it varies a great deal between individuals. My oldest biological dughter was four years old when she hopped up in my lap and asked if she could “ask Jesus into my heart”. Pastor “Dad” was very suspicious that she really didn’t understand. About 10 minutes worth of questions proved that Dad was wrong and that she most certainly DID UNDERSTAND. She prayed at that time, and three years later, she asked to be baptized.
This brings up another question: Accountable for what? My personal, pastoral opinion is that all of us are accountable for what we understand. Kids who are raised in the church gradually come to a full understanding of the faith. In the case of my son, he waited well into his teens to decide. He made his choice when he was 17 - I had the honor of Baptizing him. (BTW, we both Baptize and Dedicate children - according to the parents wishes and beliefs).