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deaconjohnO
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So we get them to come to the Church on Sunday by Celebrating a major sacrament away from the Church on their wedding day. I’m thinking if peopel don’t even want to walk into a church on their wedding day why would they want to any other day. I could be wrong, but it does seem odd.From a very practical point of view this sounds like a good thing.
According to statistics from CARA, the number of church marriages in the US has fallen off dramatically in recent years:
Marriages in previous year
1990: 326,079
1995: 294,144
2000: 261,626
2005: 207,112
2010: 168,400
2015: 148,134
Perhaps people don’t feel tied to the Church the way they once did, perhaps there’s an increase in mixed marriages, perhaps people simply want to do things their own way, but a halving of marriages in a 25-year span is noteworthy.
Perhaps giving couples the option of an outdoor wedding will keep some of these people “in the fold,” so to speak. They won’t be starting their married lives by turning their backs on the Church and entering into an invalid marriage. Maybe that will make it easier for them to return to the practice of their faith once children come along and the Church becomes more important in their lives.