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Chris_W
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I have a relative who left the Catholic Church and is now Four Square. He approached me and said he felt called to reveal some truths to me (wanted to show me the errors of Catholicism). We had a dialogue for quite some time, discussing our differences, and his mis-conceptions about Catholicism. Our last discussion resulted in him admitting he could not justify his position on a topic, while I could justify the Catholic position.
Our dialogue ended with him saying, “Well, I am 40 years old now, and established in my new church. I am a leader in this church…I even built this church…I feel at home here…I can’t just change religions.”
I don’t know how to respond. I accomplished my short term goal of helping him realize the truth of Catholic teaching, but now what? I know he realizes the error in his new found religion. Should I just let it drop there, and let his conscience be the guide? I don’t want to alienate him by challenging him as to how he can continue, knowing it is in error. But is my work here done?Of course I will continue to pray, but should I let the dialogue end (as he would prefer)?
Any advice?
Our dialogue ended with him saying, “Well, I am 40 years old now, and established in my new church. I am a leader in this church…I even built this church…I feel at home here…I can’t just change religions.”
I don’t know how to respond. I accomplished my short term goal of helping him realize the truth of Catholic teaching, but now what? I know he realizes the error in his new found religion. Should I just let it drop there, and let his conscience be the guide? I don’t want to alienate him by challenging him as to how he can continue, knowing it is in error. But is my work here done?Of course I will continue to pray, but should I let the dialogue end (as he would prefer)?
Any advice?