Aside from the good point that it’s a fictional character…
Per Catholic teaching, does it matter if he has same sex attraction as long as he’s not actively sinning? Apparently, SSA is just another cross Dumbledore must bear, and if he does so with heroic virtue–Good for him and good lesson for kids!
Very true. Christian children need to be taught that just because one has SSA, doesn’t mean they have to act upon it. And it’s a hard cross to bear, we can all learn some lessons from the ones who resist their urges, such as the virtue of putting God above ourselves, etc.
The thing that bothers me, though, are Rowling’s intentions. She has stated before that she wants her books to teach her readers to question authority and promote (false) “tolerance”, etc. So did she really intend for Dumbledore to be a celibate homosexual, or not? I don’t know for sure of course so I can’t speak with 100% certainty, but I don’t think she believes that it’s immoral for homosexuals to act upon their urges…and therefore I don’t think she intended Dumbledore to be celibate at all. It seems like the only reason the character didn’t actively engage in such acts is because of unrequited love, not because of commitment to God’s laws.
When my daughter is finally able to read, and I feel that she’s mature enough to begin to grasp the concept, I wouldn’t necessarily keep her away from a book, just because it has a homosexual character. But it’s very important for parents to figure out the author’s worldview and message, because those can be passed along to the young, impressionable reader. If the author of said book presented a homosexual character resisting his urges in order to live a life pleasing to God, then that’s acceptable material. But “Heather Has Two Mommies” is not. If any character were actively practicing a homosexual lifestyle and didn’t at least stop in the end, then that’s also not acceptable material.
In the Dumbledore case, at least nothing was mentioned in the books, at least that I saw…although apparently some fans questioned his sexuality, and I wonder how that could have popped up out of nowhere? So were there actually clues that some people didn’t pick up on? Or did Rowling really make this up after the fact for extra publicity? I don’t know. This issue (Dumbledore being gay without any obvious references) is obviously not the biggest issue that parents have to look out for. But what if she does decide to do a sequel or prequel, and includes homosexual references now that Dumbledore is “out”? I just feel that parents can never be TOO vigilant nowadays.