My point is that James Martin avoids answering valid questions, very similar to what you are doing. What happens after that is typically one deciding for themselves what is and isn’t a sin, while claiming that their behavior is between “them and Christ,” when in reality, Christ has been removed from the equation entirely, and one is worshiping and obeying only himself/herself. I assure you, I am speaking from bitter personal experience.
No one (correct me if I’m wrong) has encountered James Martin and then proceeded to tell everyone “come see a man who told me everything I’ve ever done.” Because that isn’t what he does. Jesus spoke to the Samaritan woman as a beloved child of God, telling her (very tenderly) that she had sinned. James Martin speaks to his hearers as beloved children of the devil, seductively telling them that they can figure out for themselves what is and isn’t a sin. This is not what Jesus commissioned the apostles to do.
Perhaps you have read other writings of Father Martin, SJ. I have not read the whole thread, and perhaps I missed it.
But you are reading with preconceived ideas as to what he supposedly should have said, instead of taking at face value what he says.
Nothing he wrote in any way violated Catholic moral teaching. To the uninitiated and the naive, there is an undercurrent of hatred and revulsion of the LGBTQ community. Whether or not the Nashville statement supports that, states that, or strengthens that, it is a reality, and it appears he is responding to that very real discrimination.
As such, therre is no need for him to address all that you condemn him for not addressing; he is talking about one matter, and you are addressing a different one.
Could he have done better? That depends on what is being discussed; and given the fact that there is a backlash to LGBTQ that does not account for the fact they they, too, are children of God and that appears to be what he is stating, you do not make your point.
In my last three jobs I have worked directly with a number of homosexuals. I have seen the discrimination, so it is not like I am conjuring up something just to be argumentative. I have defended them and befriended them, not because I approve of their lifestyle, but because they are people - God’s children, just as much as some of the young people who are heterosexual, and with whom I have worked, And any number of them have been sexually active outside of marriage.
I don’t need to go around condemning their choices or warning them they are going to hell. And they also know pretty much down to the crossed t’s and dotted i’s where I come from about morality of sexual activities.
Father Martin can support LGBQT people as he has, by stating Church principals as he did, and without reiterating what most of them already know (and may have very skewed opinions of), and he does not fail as a priest. There is a time for everything; the fact that you think this is the time and the place does not make it so.