This is the direct result of the degradation of communication skills among people today. The last couple of generations seem to have a very hard time expressing what they mean when they speak and write. And I say this as a member of one of the generations I’m accusing of having this problem.
You are quite correct.
People no longer search for words which convey a concrete and accepted meaning; they use words to mean what they want them to mean.
It’s especially prevalent in fuzzy concepts like love, peace, justice. . .as well as hate, war, and bigotry, to name just a few. In some cases the meanings are broadened to the point that they can mean just about anything to anybody; in others the meanings are narrowed to the point that a complex and nuanced subject is presenting as meaning one thing and one thing only.
So you can have Jane and John Everyperson absolutely convinced that when they are speaking of ‘love’, what they
understand love to be is what the word actually means. . .and if Bob and Bonnie Otherperson speak of love as being something different, even if it differs only in the smallest way from Jane and John’s understanding, Jane and John are going to accuse Bob and Bonnie first of ‘not listening to them’ by not lockstepping with ‘their’ ideas, then of being bigoted, hateful, unloving. . .and the charges will be thrown so thick and fast that there is simply no way to respond because Jane and John are on the offensive, La-la-la they aren’t listening, they simply steamroller their way through or ‘take the ball and go home’ by claiming the other person hasn’t been able to refute them so they’re right, nyah.
And of course Bob and Bonnie are the problems, you know. Because "normal’ people think like Jane and John. They don’t need people like Bob and Bonnie who are trying to make ‘simple things complex’ or ‘trying to bring back the Dark Ages’ or trying to ‘limit’ people, etc. etc.
It’s a good thing that we know that the battle in one sense is already ‘over and done’. God will triumph. One day all will be made known.
But that doesn’t mean we might not lose some pretty tough battles, or even some wars now and then.