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God bless the Church! I wouldn’t know what to do without it! Had enough of this “personal” bs. We need community!

God bless the Church! I wouldn’t know what to do without it! Had enough of this “personal” bs. We need community!

Kristin234;7958103 My church believes the baptism is necessary because Christ commanded it. The only thing is that you need to repent first and acknowledge him as your savior then you get baptized, but we do see it simply as an outward sign of our conversion. Your actual conversion is when you receive the Holy Spirit by accepting Christ as Lord and Savior and repenting.
We believe that you should be baptized because in Acts it says repent and be baptized. We don’t believe that it is connected to salvation because Paul himself said that he was not sent to baptize but to preach the gospel. If baptism was necessary for salvation then Paul would have found it necessary to baptize and preach the gospel.
The Holy Spirit is received before you get baptized. In Acts 10 it says the the Holy Spirit came on all who heard the message and then they got baptized. Peter ordered the baptism of those who had already received the Holy Spirit.
First, why did Christ command baptism? Think about it. There must be some serious reason for Him to command it. Does Christ think of it merely as an outward sign of conversion? Is that a serious enough reason to command it? Because, after all, scripture never says anything to the effect that baptism is just an outward sign.That’s why we see it the way we do![]()
my response to that would be something like… “we receive Jesus into ourselves in the Eucharist. How much more personal can it get?”I was having a conversation with a somewhat friend of mine (who is a self proclaimed know it all) about the Baptism of my newest boy. He said “So your Catholic? You know that wont get you saved. The only way to be saved is to have Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior.” My reply was “You know that the Bible never uses that phrase. Not to say it is not somewhat scriptural but I dont believe it is in there anywhere.” I dont remember ever reading this in the NT am I wrong on this?
I said you know how the Trinity is no where stated in the Bible and he said “Whats the Trinity?” so I ended the conversation. That said I am no a Biblcal scholor but I am trying to learn more day by day…
My problem with the statement is the “MY” part… It seem to be making Jesus belong to me as where we are HIS sheep and belong to him… Does this make since?
This is not saying that you should not have a personal relationship…
Any help would be appreciated
Peace,
DLG
When we “spout” that Jesus is our personal Lord and Savior we do mean that we have to obey him. I have never known anyone who has said that line and truly meant it and went on to ignore everything God tells us to do. We know very well that we can’t just sit back and say we accepted him and then go on living the same life we had been living before we accepted him. I have gone to many Protestant churches and all of them agree on that and so does my Protestant school. And saying that we go and spout this as if we just say it without thinking what it truly means is very offensive.What I have noticed about use of the phrase “my personal Lord and Savior,” is that it often gets shortened to “my personal Savior”! “Savior” gets emphasized and “Lord” gets forgotten!
So, let us shorten it the other way, and say, “my personal Lord.” What is “Lord”? Well, lord is someone you obey. Therefore, when you accept Jesus as your personal Lord, you are promising personally to obey Him. However, that part seems to be mostly ignored by those who spout that they have accepted Jesus as their “personal Lord and Savior”!
The full phrase is “personal Lord and Savior.” Jesus must be your Lord first before He can be your savior. He cannot be your savior unless He is first your lord. And, His being your lord means your doing the works He has commanded you. Hence, imbedded in the very terminology of “Lord and Savior,” is the acknowledgement of the necessity of works.
It seems to me then, that many people have a very superficial and shallow understanding of their own phraseology.
Great Post:thumbsup:What I have noticed about use of the phrase “my personal Lord and Savior,” is that it often gets shortened to “my personal Savior”! “Savior” gets emphasized and “Lord” gets forgotten!
So, let us shorten it the other way, and say, “my personal Lord.” What is “Lord”? Well, lord is someone you obey. Therefore, when you accept Jesus as your personal Lord, you are promising personally to obey Him. However, that part seems to be mostly ignored by those who spout that they have accepted Jesus as their “personal Lord and Savior”!
The full phrase is “personal Lord and Savior.” Jesus must be your Lord first before He can be your savior. He cannot be your savior unless He is first your lord. And, His being your lord means your doing the works He has commanded you. Hence, imbedded in the very terminology of “Lord and Savior,” is the acknowledgement of the necessity of works.
It seems to me then, that many people have a very superficial and shallow understanding of their own phraseology.
Meltzerboy, that is very good for the most part, are you well on your way to sticking around for good? I love it that your know.Wait a minute, Gary. Catholicism is not a “once saved, always saved” religion. What if one dies in mortal sin? According to my understanding, it’s not sola fide either: faith must be expressed through works. And isn’t the Sacrament of Baptism also required, at least baptism of desire? Then there’s invincible ignorance and the possibility of salvation for non-Christians as well through the Church and the mystery of grace. And belief in the Trinity is essential, not only belief in Jesus as the Oneness Pentecostals do.
I may be reaching a little bit here but I’ll try. I’d defer you to “The Salvation Controversy” by Jimmy Akin for specifics.My problem with the statement is the “MY” part… It seem to be making Jesus belong to me as where we are HIS sheep and belong to him… Does this make since?
This is not saying that you should not have a personal relationship…
Any help would be appreciated
I agree, I couldn’t have said it better myself.as a former Baptist, I can tell you that it isn’t that He belongs to “me”. It’s like me saying “my friend” Jane…well, I’m also HER friend too. It doesn’t mean it’s a one way relationship or ownership. And other faiths stress having a personal relationship with Jesus because Jesus came to save each and every one of us. That makes it very personal!! My walk with Jesus (to use another phrase) is going to be different than say, my son Xander’s walk with Him. So my relationship with Jesus IS a personal relationship between Him and me. What I “talk” about (pray about) with Jesus is not the same as the next person’s and where I’m at in my faith, how devoted, etc, is also different than the next person’s. This makes it a very personal relationship. Jesus is in my life and my thoughts, my decisions, absolutely everything I do. This is as personal as it gets! Jesus knows me better than anyone has ever known me. I tell Him things no one else knows. This is extremely personal! THAT’S what is meant when faiths say “my personal Lord and Savior.”
Hope this helps clear it up!
I may be reaching a little bit here but I’ll try. I’d defer you to “The Salvation Controversy” by Jimmy Akin for specifics.
Many times when I’ve had these conversations folks believe that because they’ve said the sinners prayer they have a personal relationship ship with Jesus and are saved. The scriptural passages they will quote show salvation to be a past tense thing. But, as Catholics, we use all of scripture and all of scripture shows salvation as a past, present and future process, not a one time event.
So as Catholics we have been saved, are being saved and hope to be saved. And throughout this “process” of being saved we cultivate our relationship with Jesus. And it’s through our relationship with Jesus through this process we go to heaven.
So, say, if somebody commits a mortal sin and dies then they’ve broken their relationship with Jesus and won’t go to heaven. So how all the pices fit together?
The pieces fit together in that God knows we cling to Him out of love and the need for guidance, if we disobey like children do, we will be disciplined and if it means being seperated from truth, light and love, so be it. It does not however state that all sinners will go to Hell, Hell can be simply being separated from God in a distant place, not that the place [Hell] is any real place at all, but rather a sense of abandonment and sadness also. And this is what the sacrament of confession is for. To provide the last chance to make ammends with God before you are judged in God’s presence.I may be reaching a little bit here but I’ll try. I’d defer you to “The Salvation Controversy” by Jimmy Akin for specifics.
Many times when I’ve had these conversations folks believe that because they’ve said the sinners prayer they have a personal relationship ship with Jesus and are saved. The scriptural passages they will quote show salvation to be a past tense thing. But, as Catholics, we use all of scripture and all of scripture shows salvation as a past, present and future process, not a one time event.
So as Catholics we have been saved, are being saved and hope to be saved. And throughout this “process” of being saved we cultivate our relationship with Jesus. And it’s through our relationship with Jesus through this process we go to heaven.
So, say, if somebody commits a mortal sin and dies then they’ve broken their relationship with Jesus and won’t go to heaven. So how all the pices fit together?
I have a cousin who always said that to me. I said Oh Really. Where is that in the bible? I love to play that card, I call it my protestant card. Everytime I say something I hear where is that in the bible.I was having a conversation with a somewhat friend of mine (who is a self proclaimed know it all) about the Baptism of my newest boy. He said “So your Catholic? You know that wont get you saved. The only way to be saved is to have Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior.” My reply was “You know that the Bible never uses that phrase. Not to say it is not somewhat scriptural but I dont believe it is in there anywhere.” I dont remember ever reading this in the NT am I wrong on this?
I said you know how the Trinity is no where stated in the Bible and he said “Whats the Trinity?” so I ended the conversation. That said I am no a Biblcal scholor but I am trying to learn more day by day…
My problem with the statement is the “MY” part… It seem to be making Jesus belong to me as where we are HIS sheep and belong to him… Does this make since?
This is not saying that you should not have a personal relationship…
Any help would be appreciated
Peace,
DLG
I have a cousin who always said that to me. I said Oh Really. Where is that in the bible? I love to play that card, I call it my protestant card. Everytime I say something I hear where is that in the bible.
But here is what I say according to my bible it says that Jesus Christ came down to save sinners and yep Here is the scripture. 1 Tim 2:15.
Now you show me where he says he is only your personal Lord and Savior. I kinda missed him even mentioning your name.![]()
Perhaps it is offensive, and my apologies. But, darn it, that is exactly the way it comes across. It comes across as once you have accepted Jesus into your heart, you are saved and that is that. And Catholics are then mocked because Catholics believe works are somehow necessary.When we “spout” that Jesus is our personal Lord and Savior we do mean that we have to obey him. I have never known anyone who has said that line and truly meant it and went on to ignore everything God tells us to do. We know very well that we can’t just sit back and say we accepted him and then go on living the same life we had been living before we accepted him. I have gone to many Protestant churches and all of them agree on that and so does my Protestant school. And saying that we go and spout this as if we just say it without thinking what it truly means is very offensive.
Hi, Monica, exactly my thoughts:thumbsup: John 6: Jesus explains very precisely how we attain life.my response to that would be something like… “we receive Jesus into ourselves in the Eucharist. How much more personal can it get?”![]()
You make it sound not so bad if you get caught in serious disobedience before your opportunity to make amends to God. The CCC teaches us , to die in mortal sin without repenting and accepting God’s merciful love means remaining separated from him forever by our own free choice.The pieces fit together in that God knows we cling to Him out of love and the need for guidance, if we disobey like children do, we will be disciplined and if it means being seperated from truth, light and love, so be it. It does not however state that all sinners will go to Hell, *Hell can be simply being separated from God in a distant place, not that the place [Hell] is any real place at all, *but rather a sense of abandonment and sadness also. And this is what the sacrament of confession is for. To provide the last chance to make amends with God before you are judged in God’s presence.
Peace to you all.
Bernadette173
‘Protestant card’ - I like that.I have a cousin who always said that to me. I said Oh Really. Where is that in the bible? I love to play that card, I call it my protestant card. Everytime I say something I hear where is that in the bible.
But here is what I say according to my bible it says that Jesus Christ came down to save sinners and yep Here is the scripture. 1 Tim 2:15.
Now you show me where he says he is only your personal Lord and Savior. I kinda missed him even mentioning your name.![]()
Yes, many Fundamentalists I talk to seem to overlook the fact that not only was the printing press not invented until about the 16th century, and the fact that not only did people not have a complete NT in their own language for hundreds of years, but for at least 20 years after Jesus died none of the NT had been written.Yeah when I get the famous question: Where is that Catholic teaching in the Bible, I usually respond: When you tell me where the Bible teaches everything must be in the Bible…
How about owning a Bible in English? Where is that in the Bible? Here is the look I receive:
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Yes I always get that also. That is when I say if 2 Catholics argue about scripture we do as the Scripture says take it to the Church and Father puts it to rest.‘Protestant card’ - I like that.
I’ve often said something similar.
'Okay, you believe you’re saved. That’s fine. Your free to believe you’re saved - but how do you know all those verses in the bible you are quoting refer to you personally? You’re names not there. In addition, the bible doesn’t say anywhere that unless you believe you cannot loose your salvation. Therefore, that belief cannot be demanded of others.
Also, ‘if we can all interpret scripture for ourselves and need no guidance, that means I can interpret the bible for myself. So who’s to say my interpretation of the scriptures you have quoted is wrong?’ The response to that is often, ‘well then you can’t say you’re interpretation is right, you’res might be wrong’ My answer is, '‘no, I can’t and yes, it might be wrong, which is why I can’t insist others must believe my interpretation to gain salvation.’
I completely get what you mean and I agree with you. There are many Protestants out there who think that they do not need to do anything because they are “saved” and that is unbiblical. However, it is not fair to generalize because there are so so many of us who are trying to our best to live the life that God tells us to.Perhaps it is offensive, and my apologies. But, darn it, that is exactly the way it comes across. It comes across as once you have accepted Jesus into your heart, you are saved and that is that. And Catholics are then mocked because Catholics believe works are somehow necessary.
It actually appears that is what is meant, no works are necessary, just faith. However, you have just said that what accepting Jeus as Lord and Savior truly means is to live a life of faith. And this, I take to mean, you do not attain salvation without living a life of faith. If you do not live up to your promise of obedience to Jesus, He will not save you. Certainly not once saved, always saved.
Yes, the word “spout” is a bit loaded, and I regret it. Although, I did deliberately choose that word because it is loaded that way. It has connotations of saying something without realizing a complete understanding of what it means. You understand it, but do others?