Jesus’ unbelieving neighbors were stupefied by His power because they knew His whole family–His mother, Joseph, His SISTERS, and His BROTHERS. When these unbelievers referred to Jesus’ brothers and sisters they were in no wise be referring to His disciples. It is obvious that they were talking about His physical family who they all knew and grew up with…
“Is not this [referring to Jesus] the carpenter, the son of Mary, the BROTHER of James, and Joses, and of Juda, and Simon? and are not HIS SISTERS here with us? And they were offended at him.” -Mark 6:3
John’s gospel records a fulfilled prophesy from the book of Psalms–in it, Jesus tells us He has brothers and sisters.
“And his disciples remembered that it was written, The zeal of thine house hath eaten me up.” -John 2:17
“I am become a stranger unto my brethren, and an alien unto MY MOTHER’S CHILDREN. For the zeal of thine house hath eaten me up; and the reproaches of them that reproached thee are fallen upon me.” -Psalms 69:8-9
Why was He an alien to His mother’s children? Jesus’ brothers did not believe in Him.
“For neither did his brethren believe in him.” -John 7:5
The apostle Paul saw the Lord Jesus’ half-brother James.
“But other of the apostles saw I none, save James the Lord’s brother.” -Galatians 1:19
you say the word translated “brother” should be “cousin”. The word “cousin” is clearly found in the scripture and it means–you’ve got it–cousin!
“And, behold, thy cousin Elisabeth, she hath also conceived a son in her old age: and this is the sixth month with her, who was called barren.” -Luke 1:36
“And her neighbours and her cousins heard how the Lord had shewed great mercy upon her; and they rejoiced with her.” -Luke 1:58
Very logic, but unfortunately not “very true.”
There are two family events in Jesus life in which His “siblings” had to be present, but they fail to appear for the only reason of their nonexistence.
First, Luke 2:43-44, “After the festival was over, they returned, but the boy Jesus remained in Jerusalem and his parents did not know it. They thought he was in the company and after walking the whole day they looked for him among their relatives and friends.”
Jesus parents looked for Him among their “relatives” and friends. Wouldn’t the siblings had been the ones alerting their parents that Jesus was left behind? Children stay together, they would’ve noticed his absence first. And if it was Mary who noticed that Jesus was missing, wouldn’t she have asked the “siblings” first if they knew where their brother was?
This passage establishes that Jesus family was around “relatives” since His early years, that is cousins (first, second cousins), uncles, aunts, words that Aramaic and Hebrew did not have. So the family members that “knew and grew up with” Jesus are not siblings, but “relatives.”
The other event we find in John 2:1-2, “Three days later there was a wedding at Cana in Galilee and the mother of Jesus was there. Jesus was also invited to the wedding with his disciples.”
“Jesus was also invited”, but not His brothers and sisters, nor His relatives, just His disciples? This is a family event! His siblings had to be there! His mother was, His disciples were also there, but not the siblings? NO James, NO Joses, NO Juda, NO Simon?
Knowing that the Bible is the Word of God inspired by the Holy Spirit, did you noticed that the Holy Spirit inspired John to mention Mary first in this passage, ahead of Jesus? The maid mentioned ahead of the Master! Today it would be of no consequences, but in Jesus times first mention was heavily important. Yet the Master “told” John to mention Him after His Mother. This is another reason to confirm the importance of Mary in the Church. Little things that apparently say nothing but speak volumes.
John 2:17 doesn’t refer to His physical house, but His spiritual house, the chosen people of God, the Jews. If you want to believe that the prophesy meant His physical house, you must apply the same logic to what Jesus said two verses later: John 2:19, “Destroy this temple and in three days I will raise it up.” Was Jesus referring to the physical temple in Jerusalem? You know the answer very well.
You mentioned Psalms 69:8-9. I give you Ezekiel 44:2-3, “And the Lord said to me: This gate shall be shut and it shall not be opened, and no man shall pass through it, because the Lord the GOD of Israel has entered in by it, and it shall be shut, for the Prince Himself shall sit in it, to eat bread before the Lord…” and Songs 4:12 “You are a garden enclosed, my sister, my bride; a spring enclosed, a sealed fountain.”
You say “The word ‘cousin’ is clearly found in the scripture and it means–you’ve got it–cousin!” It’s found among your present language protestant Bibles.
From my Bible, Luke 1:36, “Even your
relative Elizabeth is expecting a son in her old age, although she was unable to have a child, and she is now in her sixth month.”
From my Bible Luke 1:58, “Her neighbors and
relatives heard that the merciful Lord had done a wonderful thing for her and they rejoiced with her.”
I said it in a previous post: why didn’t Abraham say to Lot “since we are uncle and nephew” in Genesis 13:8, which in fact they were, instead of “since we are brothers”?
God bless you