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I didn’t read that they ever met
I didn’t read that they didn’t. It is not necessarily likely, but this isn’t a priest who has spent his entire life in cloistered in a seminary. He has also put in many years of service as a federal employee.I didn’t read that they ever met
I hear you. However, contraceptors are not normally manifest public sinners. Contraception by its nature is a private act — oh, all the angels and saints in heaven see you doing it, but it’s private this side of eternity. Unless the priest had learned outside of confession — a priest may not act on something he has heard only in confession — that a person were contracepting, he would have no way to know. (My own ideas about telling people in general that they must not receive communion if they are contracepting have been brought out in past forum posts and I won’t repeat them here.)Just as I would support a priest refusing to administer the blessed sacrament to women or men who use contraception, or are party to others using it.
I wouldn’t, but many readers would call this “judging”.Lines, in this case, might be shorter for communion.
Sad but true. As a rule, there is the general idea that anything “strict” about the Catholic religion was done away with after Vatican II. Many people think you can do anything you want to, just as long as you’re a “good person” and don’t steal, rob, kill, or do anything that “good people” wouldn’t do in the first place. Sex before marriage, “shacking up”, staying away from Mass during one’s young adulthood, it’s all good, God loves us. Easy-peasy, wine-and-cheesie.One would think that this is a such a basic teaching that all Catholics would know about it, but you would be surprised how many do not. I have heard young Catholics say that no one ever told them that they should refrain from receiving Communion if they have committed a grave sin and not yet been to confession. And I have heard older Catholics express some confusion as to whether the Church still teaches this or whether it was one of those things done away with after Vatican II.
Could be various reasons.Impossible why?
Ineffective why?
Yes, that could result in a lack of opportunity to undertake the recommended discussion.Because you are not his pastor?