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Dirk_Skene
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I’ll try to be brief. I am just spouting off steam 
My wife’s (unchurched) adult daughter & the 2 granddaughters 2 & 4 years old have been living with us a few months now. Her husband would not hold a job so she could not properly care for the girls as a result
For me this was not a problem. Divorce proceedings have not yet been started.
Within the last few weeks she has started seeing another man. One morning I got up for work & his car was still outside. That evening I told my wife about it. He had left before she got up for work so she was not aware. She said she’d talk to the daughter about it. A few days later it happened again. Then 2 days later again. I told my wife & said I’d like her to handle it since it was her daughter. She did. When I left for work yesterday he was not there. When I got home he was not there. When I got home from my evening job (about 22:00) he was. At the time I said nothing, wanting to see if he was going home :ehh: Come midnight I was off to bed. They went into her room & closed the door :doh2: That was it! I told my wife “This place is turning into their playhouse. It has to stop.” :tsktsk: She said she did not want a direct confrontation. I said that it had to be corrected now. I gave her the option of doing it or that I would. She got up, knocked on the daughter’s door & said that the fellow had to stop staying the night. The girl came into the Master Bedroom to ask if it could wait till tomorrow. I said “No” :dts: She used several logical arguments to support her position. I said “No.” :dts: He left for home.
My wife’s (unchurched) adult daughter & the 2 granddaughters 2 & 4 years old have been living with us a few months now. Her husband would not hold a job so she could not properly care for the girls as a result
For me this was not a problem. Divorce proceedings have not yet been started.Within the last few weeks she has started seeing another man. One morning I got up for work & his car was still outside. That evening I told my wife about it. He had left before she got up for work so she was not aware. She said she’d talk to the daughter about it. A few days later it happened again. Then 2 days later again. I told my wife & said I’d like her to handle it since it was her daughter. She did. When I left for work yesterday he was not there. When I got home he was not there. When I got home from my evening job (about 22:00) he was. At the time I said nothing, wanting to see if he was going home :ehh: Come midnight I was off to bed. They went into her room & closed the door :doh2: That was it! I told my wife “This place is turning into their playhouse. It has to stop.” :tsktsk: She said she did not want a direct confrontation. I said that it had to be corrected now. I gave her the option of doing it or that I would. She got up, knocked on the daughter’s door & said that the fellow had to stop staying the night. The girl came into the Master Bedroom to ask if it could wait till tomorrow. I said “No” :dts: She used several logical arguments to support her position. I said “No.” :dts: He left for home.
'er, I mean picky about food preperation 
if she does not have the money to pay for rent then she is responsible for some of the household duties. Acutally I would say a lot of the household duties. she is obviously responsible for herself and her kids and their care, but she needs to clean house also and do odds and ends jobs.
to that Lisa. Now you fine folks that were kind enough to back me up