It occurs to me that none of the reasons that you have given were in any way instrumental in the creation of the the Church of England. I need to be very careful here because I know at least a few of the posters on this thread know immensely more than I do about the whole situation and I would certainly defer to their expertise. However, I find it a little odd that one would be attracted to an ecclesial community that grew out of the selfish and immoral desires of a king. Until that point, they were Catholic and there was not, to my knowledge, any controversy surrounding male-only priesthood, how we treat Mary, the monarchical model, Infallibility or the claim of the Church to be the one, true Church. There is only one thing you mentioned that was at issue and that was governing “the church more or less any way we like”, That is exactly what Henry VIII wanted and that apparently appeals to you as well, which is why the later developments that you have cited, the theological and disciplinary diiferences, came about.
You know if you follow this river upstream in search of the source, you will find the Catholic Church, not the Church of England and its offshoots, or any other Church. There is only one Church because Christ started only one Church. The Church of England and its various branches chose to denominate from that one, true Church. The issues you seem to have indicate to me that you do not really understand them but I see they have been addressed very well here so I won’t go into them individually at this point. But why would you leave the only Church that can without question trace its succession back to Peter; that was given the authority to bind, even in heaven, that which is bound on earth and to loose, even in heaven, that which is loosed on earth.
I would say think long and hard on this one and give it enough effort to where you are absolutely convinced that you can no longer remain in the Catholic Church. What truth are you willing to give up?