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The kindest man who ever lived was Our Lord, Jesus Christ. Since to be Christian would be to follow Him, imitate Him….

I have listed a few examples that I feel would define kindness:
  • Putting others before yourself
  • Speaking well of others
  • Anticipating the needs of others
  • Showing courtesy to others
  • Making others feel important
Feel free to give other examples or share with us a particular kindness that was shown to you or to someone else.
 
I will start by sharing a story of the kindness of a good and faithful priest who saw the brokenness and desperation of a young woman racked with fear and anxiety who had lost all self-confidence and worth.

One of the ways he set out to help her was to build her up and make her feel that she mattered and was important to other. He started involving her in many parish activities, i.e. (teaching CCD, working in the Pro-life movement, etc.). Because he took the time to be kind—make her feel worthwhile/important… nearly 30 years later she continues to try doing God’s work to the best of her ability. Thank you Father…
 
Loving Communication I think is what you are saying here.

Since communication should be a giving of self in love, it should establish and build up community among persons. Any manner of communicating, truthful or not, is wrong if it falls short in love and needlessly impedes or harms interpersonal communion.

Contention and sowing discord do this directly. But true communion also is damaged indirectly, but no less seriously, if, in communicating about persons (oneself and others) and about groups (those to which one belongs as well as others), a person does not express the truth or expresses it without love.
(for instance making fun of someone, discussing their personal lives behind their backs, etc.)

Damaging communications about persons and groups bear upon their reputation and/or honor. Individuals need a good reputation to enter into community and participate fully in it.

Detraction, insult, and ridicule attack others in their reputation or honor.

Making one feel good about oneself can be noble so long as it is truthful. Flattery can also be method of manipulating others for one’s own ends.

St. Paul says that love is patient and kind, never jealous, not pompous, not inflated, never rude, does not seek its own interests. Love, according to Paul, is not quick-tempered; it does not brood over injury. It does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. Love “bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” Love “never fails.”

God does not ask us to like each other but he does command that we love one another.
 
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Annunciata:
I will start by sharing a story of the kindness of a good and faithful priest who saw the brokenness and desperation of a young woman racked with fear and anxiety who had lost all self-confidence and worth.

One of the ways he set out to help her was to build her up and make her feel that she mattered and was important to other. He started involving her in many parish activities, i.e. (teaching CCD, working in the Pro-life movement, etc.). Because he took the time to be kind—make her feel worthwhile/important… nearly 30 years later she continues to try doing God’s work to the best of her ability. Thank you Father…
Sounds like a really good priest… 👍
I like this thread and will think of something to post …
 
I thought this was good to post…it speaks of kindness

Through me
let there be kind words, a warm smile, and a caring heart.

Through me
let there be a willingness to listen and a readiness to understand.

Through me
let there be dependability, steadfastness, trust and loyalty.

Through me
let there be compassion, forgiveness, mercy and love.

Through me
let there be every quality I find, O Lord, in Thee.

Author Unknown

Each time he said, “My gracious favor is all you need. My power works best in your weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may work through me.
2 Corinthians 12:9
 
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deogratias:
God does not ask us to like each other but he does command that we love one another.
Deogratias,
This is so very true…God bless you for that!

Aimme,
Yes his Grace is all we need…that is my favorite passage!
Nice reflection too…

Annunciata:)
 
T.A.Stobie:
This meditation Gentleness - a Form of Love" may be of interest
Gentleness is a way of life, showing our love in how we interact with people and things. Like any way of life, gentleness has to be practiced for us to become more gentle. If we want to become more gentle, we must take active steps, that is (1) choosing to be more gentle, (2) keeping this resolution in mind, (3) acting in gentleness, and (4) catching ourselves when we are not gentle so that we can be more aware of our gentleness or lack of gentleness in the future.
Thomas,Thanks…
I especially like this one…God isn’t done with me yet…
Bless you, Annunciata:)
 
I especially liked the part of being aware of our gentleness in the future… for it is in acknowledging God’s success in our lives, God’s grace in our lives, that we become more able to accept His grace and obey His will. If each time we fall we focus only on our failures and never see our success we become bitter and fail to recognize in ourselves (and therefore in others) the great gift that God gave us in creating us in His image and likeness. We must learn from our mistakes but we must also be accepting of God’s wondrous miracle in creating us at all. To be truly humble we must accept not only our flaws, and ask for God’s grace to overcome them, but our strengths, that God alone gave us, that we may use them to glorify God.
 
I posted the first part of this article on the catholic teacher story thread…I think I probably should have posted both here…this is the ending of the article:

Well, they buried Harold today. When a convict’s body is not claimed he is laid to rest in the prison cemetery. Ours is called Ant Hill, because it is infested with fire ants. So six convicts stood among the stinging ants to dig Harold’s grave. Then those same six men carried Harold in a plain, unfinished wooden box to his final resting place among the ants and other abandoned convicts who passed before him.
Convicts have their own way of paying tribute to a man unfortunate enough to die in here. After lowering Harold’s body into the grave, the six convicts stood by the open grave. One man tossed in a spoonful of instant coffee. Another tossed in a hand-rolled cigarette. A third tossed in a match. This is done so the deceased con can stay occupied while he awaits his freedom through resurrection.
I think a lot about dying in prison. Like Harold, I am abandoned by all who share my blood. Perhaps unlike Harold, I no doubt deserve that. As the gray overtakes the black on my head and wrinkles replace the smooth I consider what it is to die here. For non-Catholics it must be terrifying. For the Catholic, however, although it is not desirable, prison is not such a bad place from which to go to Heaven.
A seed was planted, then the fruit fed Ant Hill. I am confident that Harold died my brother. So what lesson is to be learned? We must never pass up an opportunity to evangelize, and we must never give up on the seemingly hopeless case. The eternal destiny of souls depend on it.
Eternal rest grant to him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May Harold’s soul and all the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen
 
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Maggie:
To be truly humble we must accept not only our flaws, and ask for God’s grace to overcome them, but our strengths, that God alone gave us, that we may use them to glorify God.
Maggie,
That’s why the story of St. Paul’s Affliction is so dear to me!
“My Grace is enough for you, for in weakness power reaches perfection’. And so I willingly boast of my weaknesses instead, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” (2Cor.12 :9 as Aimme has already metioned in a previous post).
It blowing my mind because this is what has kept me going all these years in my ‘affliction’ w/ anxiety!
God Bless, Annunciata:)
 
another item about treatment of those in prison…

If you treat prisoners well, they will be less angry, less inclined to violence inside prison, less likely to provoke violent actions by guards, less likely to have reason to file brutality lawsuits that cost taxpayers a bundle and waste administrators’ time. And most important, well treated prisoners will be less likely to leave prison angrier, more vicious and more inclined to criminal behavior than when they went in. 👍
Code:
                                                      Frank Wood
                           Commissioner of Corrections, Minnessota
 
I have a small personal item to add to this kindness thread…

I have a handicapped son who I take to Mass on Saturday vigil,
on Mothers’ Day …our priest called mothers up for a blessing and at first I wasn’t going because of my son becoming upset at being left…well…a lady saw what was going on with us and came over and said hi…let me be his friend…I’ll stay with him and you go for the blessing…as I left the pew she was speaking quietly to him and it really moved me…I will not forget her act of kindness …to me but most of all her gentle kindness and compassion to my son.
❤️
 
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aimee:
I have a small personal item to add to this kindness thread…

I have a handicapped son who I take to Mass on Saturday vigil,
on Mothers’ Day …our priest called mothers up for a blessing and at first I wasn’t going because of my son becoming upset at being left…well…a lady saw what was going on with us and came over and said hi…let me be his friend…I’ll stay with him and you go for the blessing…as I left the pew she was speaking quietly to hi you m and it really moved me…I will not forget her act of kindness …to me but most of all her gentle kindness and compassion to my son.
❤️
That was so nice… Yup Aimee, methinks there are many more stories of kindness from you…I hope you will continue to share…Bless you and your son.:love:
Annunciata:)
 
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Annunciata:
The kindest man who ever lived was Our Lord, Jesus Christ. Since to be Christian would be to follow Him, imitate Him….

I have listed a few examples that I feel would define kindness:
  • Putting others before yourself
  • Speaking well of others
  • Anticipating the needs of others
  • Showing courtesy to others
  • Making others feel important
Feel free to give other examples or share with us a particular kindness that was shown to you or to someone else.
Christ whipping the intolerant religious leaders who were greedy of filthy lucre
 
When Americans of good will look at Iraq and Afghanistan today, the most poignant question heard is: “What can I do?”

Two of the best ways I’ve found to do this is via a couple of non-profit groups; [www.spiritofamerica.net](http://www.spiritofamerica.net/) and www.iraqischools.com
(There are other great organizations which do fine work towards the same ends such as:
http://www.operationiraqichildren.org/ and http://www.operationican.com which also deserve a look).

**Spirit Of America **works closely with the United States Marines to match money and material to specific needs in Iraq and Afghanistan. Bypassing traditional charities and non-government agencies, the organization uses the Internet to highlight specific needs

For instance, current requests include sewing machines and seed money to set up additional small sewing centers in Iraq, construction tools and training for young Iraqi men, school supply kits, water storage barrels, frisbees and soccer balls for Iraqi children, and shoes, clothes and tools for villagers in remote Afghanistan. See: www.spiritofamerica.net. These efforts help to “teach a man to fish”, getting them involved in the rebuilding and modernization of their countries and contributes to better economic conditions for their families.

Iraqi Schools.com. This organization is run by troops in Iraqi see: www.iraqschools.com. This web site allows people who want to help “win the peace”, donate school supplies to children who are going back to school in Iraq. These troops and the people who donate to via this site know that when we help this younger generation of Muslims to appreciate and value freedom and education, it makes them less likely to espouse violent extremist views. This helps make our troops safer and protects America by “draining the swap” of terrorists. Imagine the gratitude and goodwill these children’s parents must feel when you help their child get an education!

Please check out these sites and see for yourself the good works that they do. Take a look at the pictures of the children’s smiles who receive this support. Most importantly, your concern and actions are visible demonstrations of how you can “love thine enemy”. Together we can improve the deplorable conditions that breed extremism and violence and create a more peaceful world for our families.

My answer to the question of “What can I do”, is that the more I am able to give, the more I want to help and tell others.

What’s yours?

Please forward this to your friends, coworkers, church groups, etc. so we can make as substantial a difference as possible.

God bless,
Spencer J. Brady
Houston, TX
 
Mary Stuart’s Prayer

Keep us, O God, from all pettiness.

Let us be large in thought,

in word, in deed.

Let us be done with fault-finding

and leave off all self-seeking.

May we put away all pretense

and meet each other face to face,

without self-pity and without prejudice.

May we never be hasty in judgment,

and always be generous.

Let us always take time for all things,

and make us grow calm,

serene and gentle.

Teach us to put into action our

better impulses,

to be straightforward and unafraid.

Grant that we may realize

that it is the little things of life

that create differences,

that in the big things of life,

we are one.

And, O Lord God, let us not forget

to be KIND! Amen
 
I posted this on the joke thread but should have posted here…

Who are you? You might be my brother, my sister, my cousin, an old acquaintance or a new one. But first and foremost, I call you friend. And I miss you if you are away, and if you are here, then I thank you for standing by my side.

And so I send you this, so that you might know that someone, somewhere, is thinking of you, praying for you, and caring about you. And that person is me. May God grant you peace and happiness in your times of trial, and watch over you, so that one day we will meet again.

Author Unknown

Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.
James 5:16
 
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aimee:
I posted this on the joke thread but should have posted here…

Who are you? You might be my brother, my sister, my cousin, an old acquaintance or a new one. But first and foremost, I call you friend. And I miss you if you are away, and if you are here, then I thank you for standing by my side.

And so I send you this, so that you might know that someone, somewhere, is thinking of you, praying for you, and caring about you. And that person is me. May God grant you peace and happiness in your times of trial, and watch over you, so that one day we will meet again.

Author Unknown

Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.
James 5:16
Twice is good!!! Nice one…🙂
 
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