This is almost like bait.
So I guess I will have to take it.
If a Bishop tells me to go jump off a cliff, I’m not going to do it because the Church does not encourage suicide. I believe it is important to differentiate between dogmatic teaching, which occurs through a consensus of the Magisterium, led by the holy spirit and individual Bishop decisions.
For example, if the GIRM says I can kneel if I want, and one Bishop says “no way, no how”, then he is wrong.
Most likely I would start attending another parish.
I do not feel under obligation to follow that which goes contrary to actual teaching.
One of the great lessons I have learned in reading The Imitation of Christ, is that there is great grace in not following our own will but the will of another, especially when that person has been placed by God in a position of authority over us. See Book 1, Chapter 9 and especially Book 3, Chapter 23 about the four things which bring great peace. No, we are not consecrated religious and so are not vowed to obey and no one is asking us to jump off a cliff or do something against what the Church teaches. We don’t have to obey.
But when I kneel, or even if I just genuflect before recieving, (and I’m just talking about myself here, not anyone else) I make darn sure that I’m not doing it out of pride, so that everyone can see how reverent I am or so that everyone can see how holy I am. I have to be greatly moved to kneel in a parish where 1000 other people are not doing so. If I do not feel extremely moved to kneel out of personal desire to reverence God at that particular moment, I defer to the norm at the parish, which is standing, and assume that my pride was what made me want to kneel.
Contempt and persecution are blessed signs of divine predilection, but there is no proof and sign of predilection more beautiful than this: to pass unnoticed. -St. Josemaria Escriva
St. Josemaria Escriva spoke at length about “Passing unnoticed” in life, in dressing and behaving so that we don’t draw attention to ourselves. Recieving communion is not a “good work before men” to be set upon a lamp stand. Feeding the hungry and helping an old lady go grocery shopping - yes, let your light shine among men. Recieving communion - no, it is not a good work. It is
communion. It is
koinonia. It is
intamacy with Jesus beyond any intimate moment you have ever had with anyone else in your life.
The truth is that Jesus Christ will not call us to judgment about whether we knelt or stood for communion. Rather he will call us to judgement about how are hearts were disposed at that moment we dared to approach the altar where he is made present and dared to recieve him. He will call us to judgement about whether, in the face of His own extreme humility in being nailed to a cross for our sins - yours and mine personally - and in the face of His own humility in coming to us under the appearance of bread and wine, whether we stood there and insisted that our own rights be respected. He will call us to judgement on whether we insisted that our own will be done, even as we recieved him who sweat blood in the garden yet said, “Not mine, but thy will be done” and then begged God to forgive the people who were murdering him.
OK, maybe the bishop is wrong. So what? There is great grace in submitting our pride and insistence on our will being done to the will of another, especially when they are in a postion of authority, even if they are wrong, and as another has pointed out, if they are not asking us to sin.
-Tim-