Or one can be glad for the liturgical renewal that blossomed from the liturgical movement, as apparently is the case with Lost4words.
Or one could be glad for both, the ‘liturgical renewal’ of the OF, and the liturgical ‘availability’ of the EF (well, at least for those for whom it IS available.)
I personally have absolutely no problem with people expressing a preference for one or the other, even if their preference does not ‘jibe’ with my preference.
For those who find the beauty of hearing words ‘that they understand in their vernacular’ making them full and active participants that way, great. More power to them. I’m sure it is perfectly understandable and logical. And of course the converse, that they would not understand in 'another language" (be it Latin, or Spanish, German, Swahili, etc) is not a denigration of those who do understand those languages and find them beautiful as well).
For those who find the beauty of hearing words that they can understand (either because they understand Latin, or Spanish, etc., or have the translations into their own vernacular) and who find that they fully and actively participate in Mass that is more contemplative, more power to them. I would hope we can understand that; it is likewise logical. And of course the converse, that there are those who prefer a less contemplative liturgy, is not a denigration of those who prefer such.
It’s when we move from, “This is my preference, and because I find it suits me and gives me such great benefit, I not only feel it is preferable to the ‘other liturgy’, but that the other liturgy is not just less good, but actually bad, should be permanently retired, is only chosen by those who are elitist, rigid, bent on bringing back the Inquisition, narrow-minded, etc.”–or to be fair, that ‘the other liturgy’ is not just less good, but invalid, bad, is only chosen by the modernists and that they have broken from the Faith. . .etc. ". that things become a problem.
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those positions**** would be ones that we should not hold ourselves, or assume that others hold (unless of course they actually say they do).
It is far more likely that the majority of those who prefer the OF may not exactly understand why others prefer the EF, but they are perfectly willing to accept, ‘different strokes for different folks’; and the same with those who prefer the EF, the majority of whom likewise may not exactly understand why others prefer the OF but again are perfectly willing to accept 'different strokes for different folks.
Unfortunately it is the few extremists in both camps who muddy the waters and make it difficult or uncomfortable for everybody else.
Happy New Year!