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Confession is not an ordinance but is part of the repentance process. It is not an ordinance because we don’t give “absolution” the way Catholics do, we think that can come only from God.mfbukowski,
Thanks,
do you consider confession as an ordinance? I understand, that in general, LDS practice confessing to another *only *in rare occasions
This almost could have come from a Catholic Confession Guide
-kc
One confesses to the individual who has been wronged- in cases of marital fidelity, the offended spouse, in cases of theft, the person who was robbed, etc.
It is part of the restitution process, which is also a requirement. In cases where restitution cannot be made, one does one’s best anyway.
On personal issues which offended no other person but which were sinful, one confesses to God and does one’s best to repent
In serious cases like adultery, fornication, or something more serious involving the law for example, one’s membership in the church could be in jeopardy, and in such cases one must confess to the bishop who is ordained as a “judge”. The bishop will help the member decide how best to repent and do what is necessary to get back to church standards. If one does not want to live by church standards, there is no reason for them to be in the church. Remember also, in contrast to Catholicism, every member is to some degree a “minister” either teaching classes to children or helping out others in some way, so it is important that these “lay ministers” keep church standards, or others could be harmed. Mormons really have no notion of “laity”, because everyone is eligible for a “calling”- a ministerial position.
In very serious cases, a member could be excommunicated if other members spirituality is endangered by their actions, or if they have committed a serious sin and have no interest in repenting.
Important also in this idea is the fact that one is not baptized until one is (presumably) old enough to understand that they are making agreements to keep the commandments – so even joining the church as a child implies an agreement to abide by its standards.
Obviously 8 year old children must be taught this, and the bishop interviews them before baptism to make sure they understand that they are agreeing to “be good and keep the commandments” to their level of understanding.