Wow, there’s been a let of activity on this thread since I’ve been able to post, thanks everyone for contributing to the discussion.
I think ultimately it comes down to the fact that I believe that God (in effect) didn’t say “thou shalt not eat the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and evil”. In my understanding of the events, God said (in effect) “this is your choice, eat the fruit and become mortal with everything that comes with it, or don’t eat it, and stay here, but you wot progress beyond this state”
We’ve gone round and round, but because we view that part differently, there won’t be mutual understanding.
The other thing is that it was only after they ate the fruit that God said "now man…know(s) good from evil. I understand what others have said on this thread about experiential knowing vs. logically knowing, but the fact remains, God said that eating the fruit made them "like unto (Him), knowing good from evil. The lie Satan told was not this. It was that they wouldn’t die.
Again, I respect that we have different views on this.
To bring things back to the start of this thread, if the fall never occurred, there would be no misery, no sickness, no sin,no death, no trials, no suffering, and so, comprehending happiness and health, righteousness, joy and wellbeing would be impossible. That’s generally what Mormons mean when they say that sin is needed in order for there to be happiness. We cannot comprehend things without opposites. Light/dark, heavy/light, happy/sad etc.