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RebeccaJ
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Well, my family are all devout Mormons, with a few exceptions who are like I was: atheist, agnostic, apatheist (yes I know that is a new term). So I am the one who has left and broke my parent’s hearts.Rebecca,
I truly empathize with your experience regarding the group of Mormon children visiting the Cathedral. I am not sure…because the attitude is picked up…if it is a wise thing to do for all parties involved…as you say, it is the Holy Spirit Who opens up others to understand our faith. I would be disturbed at Mass knowing that these children and others of the same persuasion would not be viewing the reality of the truth around them because of their orientation.
The Mormons value their own families very much. I do mine. But I do not go about or approve of Catholics working hard to take others away from their faith. Kids who leave their parents faith…no matter what side you are on…is a very hard loss on a religious family.
I decided not to move to SLC where I would be worshipping there with you, for fear of elements in Mormonism that would work to take my children away from my church and away from my heart and soul. I met a Lutheran woman whose family moved to Utah. They had to leave because of the squiring by Mormon boys towards their daughters. My older daughter looks so much like Anne Hathaway…and even having a sense of humor like her…my younger very cute…my dad said if we moved there to have the girls wear crucifixes…
I know about the Catholic Europeans who took in Jewish children to save and protect them from the Nazis. And they went ahead and baptized them, and did not want to return them to their Jewish parents. The Catholic Church advised them to return the children to their respective parents. And the Evangelicals, many of them, think we are in a man made church and want to liberate and save our members…The European Catholic/Jew experience is very different from ours in America.
All in all, there is a tearing of the heart…when I read a sharing like yours with the young boys…what opposing religions can do…and common sense and respect and holding on to the commandments’ calling and fulfilling one’s duties to one’s family is very important to me…irregardless if people change churches or not…
Raising children in faith that is adversarial to another is not good.
Before that I was atheist, but I never rubbed my non-belief in my family’s face. I never tried to turn anyone atheist. lol.
When I was baptized Catholic, I told no one in my family. Absolutely no one. Not because I was trying to keep my faith secret, but because I really have nothing in common with my family and I saw no reason to make a huge announcement about something they would at the best, not care about at all. Word has started to get out though and the reactions and comments being made to me, the attitude of so-called family towards me, is interesting to watch. One brother-in-law writes the sort of thing we’re talking about here, for a living, and he isn’t talking to me at all.
There are LDS here who do work very hard at converting children. My daughter came home with a BoM from where she worked, as a teenager in high school. I was fit to be tied. Mormons do not hold any boundaries when it comes to other people’s children. You can be sure of that.
I didn’t talk to the children who were at the Cathedral, at all. One of their adult leaders walked up to me to ask a few questions. This is not the first time I have seen a group of Mormon kids at the Cathedral. For a while, they were showing up to Sunday morning Mass. I have yet to figure out why Mormon adults are bringing Mormon children to our church.
A few years ago a woman invited two Mormon missionaries to mass in Russia. The priest there kicked them out. I can understand that reaction, entirely, while at the same time, such an action doesn’t do any good.
“Love thy neighbor” is difficult, when you live around people who slander your beliefs as the foundation of their own.