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dianaiad
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That’s quite a straw windmill you are tilting at, AMD.You mean that one minute they are “of the Kingdom of Heaven” (that is without sin) and then magically at a certain birthday, the child becomes sinful (and no longer is God’s child)?So this sin “came out of the blue” and landed squarely on the shoulders of a child who happened to be older than 7 years 59 seconds?
This is a fairly accurate standard of child development, y’know. (shrug) Actually, I wasn’t baptised until I was 8 and a half years old. I turned 8 in August, but had the measles. It was thought unwise to expose everybody to my germs. By the time I was well enough, the water was too cold, so I had to wait for spring, along with everybody else who had been born in the winter.
We all looked forward to it very much. Nobody was all that worried that I was going to hell because they couldn’t dunk me for six months, and that is also codified in our beliefs. When WE cannot be flexible, God certainly can be, and is.
One young boy was nearly 10; being developmentally disabled, he hadn’t reached his personal age of accountability until then. As I have already mentioned, eight years old may seem arbitrary…though as a general rule it isn’t all THAT arbitrary considering what a child must be able to understand–but we don’t think that he is 'of the Kingdom of Heaven" until the precise minute and second eight year anniversary from his or her exit from the birth canal, and hell bound unless he or she is baptised the following second.
As do Catholics, we understand that God is merciful in these matters. However, I’m going to be very blunt, here. In all my dealings with Catholics and other Christians, not a single one of them has been able to show me in thier doctrines and dogma that God will have mercy on unbaptised infants. The most hyper Calvinist ALMOST do that, in their conviction that because of absolute predestination it doesn’t matter whether you baptise an infant or not; if that infant is predestined to be saved, it will be saved whether it dies after it’s first breath or not. However, if it is predestined for hell, no baptism, prayer, hope or tears will keep it from burning eternally. As shudderingly awful as that concept sounds to me, it is at least honest. Everybody ELSE runs into that wall of unbaptized babies not going to heaven, but in the absence of anything scriptural to support hope, they simply hope. I believe, of course, that this hope is justified, but where do THEY get that justification?
We also ‘hope.’ The difference is that our hope IS codified in our doctrines and beliefs. For us it’s not a case of “God didn’t actually tell us how He was going to solve this one in the face of what we think scriptures say about it, but we have faith that He is not what we think the scriptures say He is, and that our infant dead will be fine.” For us, it’s a case of “God DID tell us, and this is what He said; infants, small children and those who are not accountable for their own actions are already of the Kingdom of Heaven and don’t need baptism until they ARE personally accountable.” We believe that pretty much everybody is by the time they are eight, so that’s when we place the baptism date. Right around then. Please note: right AROUND then.