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I agree with you. When people understand the sacraments, they love them. Even when they have a brief exposure, they love them.I have found that people really don’t want to be hit over the head with a Bible.
People want to know why life stinks in spite of the fact that they have done everything society told them they should. They want to know why their husband left or why their kid is doing drugs, and they keep hearing Christians talk about joy and peace but then they get whacked over the head with a Bible by Baptists and told they are going to hell or they get smacked with a Catechism by Catholics and told they hare going to hell.
If we can demonstrate peace and joy in our own lives then it will attract people like moths to a flame, and they will ask how we do it. That’s when it is time to talk, to say, “I have the sacraments.”
Where I live people are usually like, “Sacraments? What’s that?”
-Tim-
When my daughter got married, the photographer was a young woman who was not Catholic. She’s excellent at her craft. That’s why she was hired.
At the end of the day, she told my daughter that she had witnessed many weddings of many faiths. She had never seen a Catholic wedding. This was her first time. She pointed out that she was moved by the solemnity of the rite, the reverence during the mass, by the many symbols, by the prayers of the congregation and priest and by the words in the marriage rite itself.
In simple language, she was encountering the sacraments of Eucharist and Matrimony for the first time. She did not understand all of the symbols, gestures or words, but she was captivated by the whole of it. She felt that there was something very special about it that she had never seen before.
I must humbly mention that I planned the liturgy. The whole thing was by the book. It was the Ordinary Form. But when the sacraments are celebrated as they should be, they speak for themselves. I believe that it helps when the people involved understand the sacraments.
In the case of this wedding, the bride and groom had asked me to plan their wedding mass, because they wanted it to be liturgically correct. To quote my daughter, “I don’t care if the reception and the dress go to pots. But the mass and the wedding rite must be the centerpiece of the day. Nothing can be more important than that.”
What this young lady saw was two people who understood the Eucharist and Matrimony surrounded by family and friends who also understood or at least respected it. I think this caused her to tune in to more than just what picture to take at what moment. She actually tuned in to what was happening around her and she knew that it was something mystical.
The sacraments are powerful. If we can introduce them to people, not by lectures, but by how we live them, they speak for themselves.