Well my point is, that many struggle with some form of sexual temptation. But only one group, those with SSA (and their SJW supporters), is making all the noise. Not everyone with SSA, perhaps, but a very vocal segment. i think all the accusations of discrimination against those with SSA in the Catholic Church are part of a strategy to change the classification of homosexual activity as a mortal sin.
As far as the purifying value of the struggle, I totally agree. And so would Thomas a Kempis. But in our modern, entitlement culture, struggle is always protested against as unjust. This kind of thinking ignores the cross, and is heterodoxy.