In the 1960’s, at the time of the Second Vatican Council, there were hopes for a new springtime in the Church; exactly the opposite had come to pass.
Now this needs a little more unpacking than perhaps you’ve done here.
Imagine what state the Church would be in had VII not happened…
Do you really believe the situation would have been any better?
I don’t. It would likely have been many times worse because in fact, like stuck tectonic plates, a huge dissonance and pressure had built up that needed to be released.
Church structures and thinking was so unreal and at odds with the changing world that it took huge discipline in laity and clergy to keep the two continental shelfs artificially linked.
It was an impossible task.
It is a wonder that more men and women did not leave the priesthood and religious life. At that time the lifestyle and thinking was olde worlde and hopelessly inadequate for facing the new theological and secular challenges. They were hopelessly trained and prepared for apostolic life and the medieval community life was not adequately nourishing. Their own teachers largely taught them past solutions that no longer worked in a less authoritarian,post WWII world. The authoritarian and impersonal way with set piece apostolates that they were expected to live would cause mental breakdowns in most persons.
VII likely should have happened a generation or two earlier.
You seem to harken back to a day where the Church had for some time stopped reading the signs of the times. Had smaller changes been instituted much earlier we may just as likely not seen the huge earthquakes that happened post VII.
I get it you will disagree, your comments above indicate the olde ways suit your personality and temperament. Unfortunately most people no longer share that temperament so things have to change.
The Church is still finding its feet in 1st world countries. There is no priest shortage in 3rd world countries where the olde worlde ways still have a grip due to poverty. I do not know the answer, in 1st world countries, we are still rebounding from the too late changes and a new formula hasn’t been found yet. We will, it will just take time.