Let's STOP gay marriage now!

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Want to Stop Gay marriage, don’t marry a gay person. Otherwise, they should and they WILL have the right to marry anyone they love as well.

So the irony is, love will ALWAYS Win. God is Love. And therefore Gay Marriage will soon be legal in all 50 states.
True, God is Love and love has won a will continue to win. But the ‘God of Love’ you speak of doesn’t approve of gay marriage since he in the beginning created women for man. He does have patience with our errors, which is a true act of Love for us. The Catholic Church is my religion since it was created out of True love, for love till the end of time.
 
Marriage is a sacrament of the Church. Thus is defined by the Church. All sin is unholy, thus their actions are unholy. You discriminate against them by defining their person hood by what they enjoy to do with their genitals. They are more than that. Don’t bother with the love argument either. I have plenty of people that I love and we have zero sexual activity.

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Actually, Matrimony is a sacrament of the Church. Marriage is a civil matter regulated by law whose goals include property, inheritance, and child responsibility matters. In some, but not all places, civil law recognizes the religious rite as having legal standing. In other places, there must be separate civil and religious ceremonies. Marriage as a legal institution existed long before the Church.
 
Marriage is a sacrament of the Church. Thus is defined by the Church. All sin is unholy, thus their actions are unholy. You discriminate against them by defining their person hood by what they enjoy to do with their genitals. They are more than that. Don’t bother with the love argument either. I have plenty of people that I love and we have zero sexual activity.

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aTraditionalist this reference to the ‘genitals’ is your sole definition and not mine. If your stating your a sexually inactive gay individual then I applaud you.
 
There’s absolutely no reason for the Catholic Church to oppose same-sex marriage, as long as – as at least one poster already said – it is limited to a civil issue and no laws are passed requiring the church to perform such marriages.

It has nothing to do with children, sex, even living together (keep in mind I’m talking about civil marriage here – the kind you get from filing your marriage license – not religious marriage). And marriage, in that respect, has nothing to do with religion or the lack thereof.
QuasiCatholic or Kinda Catholic or Kinda Protestant which ever name or position you take. We are in a Catholic Forum so yes marriage does have to do with men, women, and children and may I add God to it which you seem to leave out.
 
For most of human history, marriage was not about love or about children – except to the extent that bastards couldn’t inherit.

Both love and children will come about with or without the existence of marriage. And neither love nor children are required for a marriage to be valid – even in the church.

So why does marriage, in a civil/society context, actually exist? To control the flow of property, create alliances between tribes, and bring a bit more order to people’s social relationships. All of that is still true in a same-sex marriage.
  • You can get married even if you know you’re infertile
  • You can get married even if you don’t like/know each other (that was the norm for centuries)
  • You’re still legally married even if you never have children
  • You’re still legally married even if you never have sex with each other at all
Legal marriage has nothing to do with love, sex or children. It’s contract and inheritance law. And it’s not fair to deny two adults access to a legally binding contract.

Something to think about when you think about marriage and imposing our rules on others: Mary and Joseph did not have a sacramental marriage (there were no sacraments yet), neither of them was baptized (there was no baptism yet) and since Mary was a virgin, their marriage was never consummated (meaning they shouldn’t have been living together at all under Jewish law, and that they would have qualified for annulment under modern Catholic rules). Yet they’re our model for marriage.
 
QuasiCatholic or Kinda Catholic or Kinda Protestant which ever name or position you take. We are in a Catholic Forum so yes marriage does have to do with men, women, and children and may I add God to it which you seem to leave out.
Yes, but you’re talking about stopping LEGAL gay marriage. Which makes this about more than our own faith. It makes it a question of constitutional law. And fairness to everyone, regardless of our beliefs or their beliefs.

We, as Christians, get upset – and rightfully so – when we here about Christians being persecuted in other countries for their faith, which happens because a different faith is running the show there. Why would we then do the same to others, and cause them to suffer because of our beliefs?

Even in the U.S., you realize, Catholics are less than a quarter of the population? If we didn’t have separation of church and state, the Catholic church probably would be in hiding here, too. You can’t enjoy the freedom to live by your beliefs given to you by the separation of church and state while simultaneously trying to impose your beliefs on others.
 
Brothers and Sisters, here are the facts:

More and more people are changing their views and believe Homosexuality is NOT a sin, and more importantly, are speaking up for wanting to marry the one they love.

Now any Church may continue to have their OPINION that Homosexuality is a sin, but we as a culture are changing and there is no going back. We have friends, family and others close to us coming out as Gay, and more power to them.

Want to Stop Gay marriage, don’t marry a gay person. Otherwise, they should and they WILL have the right to marry anyone they love as well.

So the irony is, love will ALWAYS Win. God is Love. And therefore Gay Marriage will soon be legal in all 50 states.
Your whole argument is based on an equivocation of the word “love” with “sex” and, therefore, the phrase “God is love” means, for you, the same as “God is freedom to have sex.” The problem is that “sex” is not a transferable term with “love.” Love does not mean the freedom to have sex with whomever one chooses. You can fool some of the people, but hopefully most will see this as nonsense.

Furthermore, it is not an OPINION that homosexual behaviour is a sin, except, perhaps that it is God’s OPINION on the subject. Given that God is the ground of all Being, his is the only “opinion” that counts because his “opinion” dictates the nature of all reality.

A better definition of the word love would be something like “proper concern for the welfare of others.”

The question to ask yourself is if homosexual behaviour is shown to be determinably harmful to those who engage in it, would your “love” for them change your current support of gay marriage and would you begin - out of love for “gay” individuals - to speak against gay behaviour because of an undying concern for their well-being?
 
Yes, but you’re talking about stopping LEGAL gay marriage. Which makes this about more than our own faith. It makes it a question of constitutional law. And fairness to everyone, regardless of our beliefs or their beliefs.

We, as Christians, get upset – and rightfully so – when we here about Christians being persecuted in other countries for their faith, which happens because a different faith is running the show there. Why would we then do the same to others, and cause them to suffer because of our beliefs?

Even in the U.S., you realize, Catholics are less than a quarter of the population? If we didn’t have separation of church and state, the Catholic church probably would be in hiding here, too. You can’t enjoy the freedom to live by your beliefs given to you by the separation of church and state while simultaneously trying to impose your beliefs on others.
Why would we “impose” the traditional definition of marriage? Well, for one thing, it is strange to talk of imposing a definition of marriage that virtually all societies, all religions, and all governments agreed on throughout the world and throughout history, until the very recent past – maybe 15 to 20 years ago. I’m not saying that every society, religion, or government agreed on every aspect of marriage. But they did all agree that it was the union of a man and a woman.

But the most important reason for “imposing” this belief is simple: because children have a right to be raised by their biological mother and father whenever possible. Same-sex “marriage” undermines that right, and establishes in law that two moms or two dads are equivalent to a child’s natural parents – a mom and a dad. And the need to protect this right of children outweighs any right (which I would argue does not exist anyway) for a man to marry another man, or for a woman to marry another woman.
 
Brothers and Sisters, here are the facts:

More and more people are changing their views and believe Homosexuality is NOT a sin, and more importantly, are speaking up for wanting to marry the one they love.

Now any Church may continue to have their OPINION that Homosexuality is a sin, but we as a culture are changing and there is no going back. We have friends, family and others close to us coming out as Gay, and more power to them.

Want to Stop Gay marriage, don’t marry a gay person. Otherwise, they should and they WILL have the right to marry anyone they love as well.

So the irony is, love will ALWAYS Win. God is Love. And therefore Gay Marriage will soon be legal in all 50 states.
Just because society thinks it’s right does it make it right. We have abortion that’s not right yet society and the laws accept it. Divorce overall is not right yet society thinks it is. So no saying that society thinks is right is a bad argument.
 
Making it legal does not make it moral or make it truth. Roe v Wade made killing legal but it did not make it right or moral.
Thank you good answer, we have the marijuana issue in Colorado once again it doesn’t mean it’s right.
 
This is not about Abortion.

This is about 2 people who love each other wanting to get married. Period.

While you may not think it right or moral, you simply cannot STOP and impose this opinion on others. Sorry.
But you stated bc society thinks is right. Society is taught is was and still is right to have abortion. Where is the love in that?
 
Unfortunately, I think that fixing our culture’s view of marriage will be a long and difficult process, that certainly won’t be solved overnight. And the problem it isn’t just the current delusions that a marriage can be formed by two people of the same sex, and that children don’t need a mother and a father. We also have to deal with all of the following related problems:
  • widespread divorce facilitated by no-fault divorce laws
  • widespread use of contraception and treating children as optional accessories that have little to do with what marriage is
  • 40% of children in the U.S. being conceived outside of marriage
  • laws and government programs that financially penalize lower income couples if they marry, thus discouraging them from marriage
  • the increasing trend of couples living together before marriage or instead of marrying
  • babies being treated as commodities rather than as the product of a loving marital embrace (i.e., IVF, surrogate motherhood, sperm donation)
And before long we may have to add polygamy and group marrriages to that list.

So we have a lot of work to do, and it will likely get worse before it gets better. I agree with you that we must pray.
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Yes, but you’re talking about stopping LEGAL gay marriage. Which makes this about more than our own faith. It makes it a question of constitutional law. And fairness to everyone, regardless of our beliefs or their beliefs.

We, as Christians, get upset – and rightfully so – when we here about Christians being persecuted in other countries for their faith, which happens because a different faith is running the show there. Why would we then do the same to others, and cause them to suffer because of our beliefs?

Even in the U.S., you realize, Catholics are less than a quarter of the population? If we didn’t have separation of church and state, the Catholic church probably would be in hiding here, too. You can’t enjoy the freedom to live by your beliefs given to you by the separation of church and state while simultaneously trying to impose your beliefs on others.
There is something oddly twisted in this argument. Every individual has a right to “impose” their beliefs on others. The gay lobby is working very hard to impose its beliefs on others. The reason, I would hope, that individuals are Catholic is because their beliefs are in accord with Church teaching. That means the beliefs of those individuals reflect and are reflected by Church teaching. Every Catholic has a right, as an individual, to “impose” their beliefs on the state merely as a matter of having the political right to do so within a democracy.

If Catholic beliefs are true beliefs regarding the nature of human beings and what it is that makes a just society, then by following your notions, you would be advising that the most completely true principles about ethics and politics are those which will have no place in this democracy you seek to build premised on the separation of Church and state. By default, you will end up with every inferior political and moral notion being allowed but the best principles being disallowed merely because they happen to be those endorsed by the Church or churches in general.

The logic that ought to be invoked is to allow sound moral and ethical thinking, not matter where it is sourced, to determine democratic governance and judicial policy. Frankly, I don’t care if a Methodist attempts to impose their “beliefs” on me provided those beliefs have been shown to reflect sound judgements. That is the reason, by the way, that I subscribe to Church teaching, it has been tried and found true for 2000 years and before that in Judaism.
 
There is something oddly twisted in this argument. Every individual has a right to “impose” their beliefs on others. The gay lobby is working very hard to impose its beliefs on others

The logic that ought to be invoked is to allow sound moral and ethical thinking, not matter where it is sourced, to determine democratic governance and judicial policy. Frankly, I don’t care if a Methodist attempts to impose their “beliefs” on me provided those beliefs have been shown to reflect sound judgements. That is the reason, by the way, that I subscribe to Church teaching, it has been tried and found true for 2000 years and before that in Judaism.
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There is something oddly twisted in this argument. Every individual has a right to “impose” their beliefs on others. The gay lobby is working very hard to impose its beliefs on others. The reason, I would hope, that individuals are Catholic is because their beliefs are in accord with Church teaching. That means the beliefs of those individuals reflect and are reflected by Church teaching. Every Catholic has a right, as an individual, to “impose” their beliefs on the state merely as a matter of having the political right to do so within a democracy.
Yes, but the United States of America is not a simple majority-rules democracy, and while we can debate the influence of Christianity in general in its founding, the US is not, in any sense, a Catholic nation. The US didn’t have a sacramental definition of marriage yesterday, and it won’t tomorrow. Catholic philosophical arguments have played very little role in the legal landscape on same-sex marriage.
 
There’s absolutely no reason for the Catholic Church to oppose same-sex marriage, as long as – as at least one poster already said – it is limited to a civil issue and no laws are passed requiring the church to perform such marriages.
Ill let the Vicar of Christ respond to this"

*“Let’s not be naive, we’re not talking about a simple political battle; it is a destructive pretension against the plan of God,” wrote Cardinal Bergoglio (now Pope Francis)in a letter sent to the monasteries of Buenos Aires. “We are not talking about a mere bill, but rather a machination of the Father of Lies that seeks to confuse and deceive the children of God.” *

*The Argentinean people will have to confront, in the coming weeks, a situation whose result could gravely injure the family. We are speaking of a bill regarding marriage between people of the same sex," a bill that calls into question “the identity, and the survival of the family: father, mother, and children.” *
Marriage, from a civil perspective, is a simple two-party legal contract. It’s a combining of fortunes (or debts, in some cases 😛 ) and legal responsibilities. It confers various rights regarding inheritance, health care decisions, etc. that do not otherwise exist.
But we’re not talking about the civil perspective of marriage. We’re talking about the age old commitment of a man and woman before God to love and honor him together and raise children to honor him also. Part of the problem with the so called same-sex marriage push is the denigration of marriage into nothing more than a civil contract between two people who want to have sex and protect their assets. How utterly demeaning and what a mockery this makes of marriage
It has nothing to do with children, sex, even living together (keep in mind I’m talking about civil marriage here – the kind you get from filing your marriage license – not religious marriage). And marriage, in that respect, has nothing to do with religion or the lack thereof.
It has everything to do with children, sex and living together. To try to separate these for marriage that means the institution to nothing more than a legally recognize coupling of two people.
e is nothing in church doctrine that says two men can’t share financial responsibilities. Or that one woman can’t leave her belongings to one another. There isn’t even anything saying two people of the same sex can’t live together, or can’t be attracted to each other even, as long as they don’t act on it.
Correct. Our this has nothing whatsoever to do with whether the institution of marriage should be diminished to accommodate homosexual behavior
Jesus said give unto Caesar what is Caesar’s. The right for any two competent adults to enter into a legal contract with one another is Caesar’s.
Another example of people pulling random, out of context, quotes from scripture and making profound theological pronouncements based upon their personal interpretation thereof.
 
There is something oddly twisted in this argument. Every individual has a right to “impose” their beliefs on others. The gay lobby is working very hard to impose its beliefs on others. The reason, I would hope, that individuals are Catholic is because their beliefs are in accord with Church teaching. That means the beliefs of those individuals reflect and are reflected by Church teaching. Every Catholic has a right, as an individual, to “impose” their beliefs on the state merely as a matter of having the political right to do so within a democracy.

If Catholic beliefs are true beliefs regarding the nature of human beings and what it is that makes a just society, then by following your notions, you would be advising that the most completely true principles about ethics and politics are those which will have no place in this democracy you seek to build premised on the separation of Church and state. By default, you will end up with every inferior political and moral notion being allowed but the best principles being disallowed merely because they happen to be those endorsed by the Church or churches in general.

The logic that ought to be invoked is to allow sound moral and ethical thinking, not matter where it is sourced, to determine democratic governance and judicial policy. Frankly, I don’t care if a Methodist attempts to impose their “beliefs” on me provided those beliefs have been shown to reflect sound judgements. That is the reason, by the way, that I subscribe to Church teaching, it has been tried and found true for 2000 years and before that in Judaism.
It is an awfully twisted argument. Basically the argument is that people of faith should have no say in the laws of the country unless a check their religion at the door.

Catholics have every much are they right have their moral views encompassed in the law as a do homosexuals.
 
Let’s stop fornicators marrying in general, and it’ll do wonders to the divorce rate in this country, and so much more.
 
Let’s stop fornicators marrying in general, and it’ll do wonders to the divorce rate in this country, and so much more.
Well, part of the marriage vows is binding oneself for life to the spouse, “forsaking all others.” So yes, that would preclude fornication.
 
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