DustinsDad: what is making me upset are not your arguments, but your tone and accusations.
I can’t address “tone” - I guess “tone” is in the ear of the receiver. When you read (and I highly encourage you to do so)
Pascendi Dominici Gregis by Pope Saint Pius X, or
Mortalium Animos by Pope Pius XI, what “tone” do you think they are using? Does it upset you?
And if you think I’m making accusations, then those would be contained within the arguments, with which you say are not making you upset. That’s a little confusing

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I am not attacking tradition,
Seems otherwise to me. But I doubt you know it. Yet.
I am upset because I somehow got labelled “liberal”, “modernist” (hmm, why not heretic?) etc… for believing that Protestants can be saved and are saved, if their protestantism is not their fault (and if they follow whatever means of salvations they have).
Again,
invincible ignorance neither saves nor condemns. It’s just one of those things that we can’t see but that must be present *if *a non-visible member of the Catholic Church is have even the possibility to be saved. Read the article in the above link.
But the real issue is,
when exactly, in your mind, is a person’s protestantism not “their fault”? And is your understanding here in conformity to the
infallible dogmas of the Church?
I would understand those labels if I had said that since they could be saved too it was ok to be Protestant and we should leave them alone,
You
are saying its ok to be Protestant “as long as it’s not their fault” - which could mean just about anything anyone wants it to mean. You are going to hve to be a little more specific, lest you promote religious indifferentism. You speak as if these particular protestants, whoever they are, have no responsibility to seek out and to respond to the Truth. But they do - all of us do - no matter what situation we were born into.
The thing (I think) that sparked this chat between you and me was your defending this “classic” JR statement:
If Christ has used the Reformation churches as a means of salvation, then one is not in danger of going to hell because one is Protestant, but because one is a bad Protestant."
And you wonder why the “tone” seems “harsh.”
Oh I don’t know…souls are at stake…that’s all.
or if I said “oh, those quotes are stupid and not relevant any more”. But have I said that?
I don’t think you pay much attention to them at all. Seems you take a “that was then, this is now” approach to Truth.
A bit off-topic, but how do YOU try to show Protestants the true faith?
By
trying with God’s grace to live out the Faith - unabashadly and without hiding it under a bushel basket. And by trying to be totally honest and charitable with them. Those last two are not mutually exclusive by the way.
I assume they are ignorant of the Truth (this assumption places the burden of responsibility on me to share the Truth as best I can).
I don’t assume they are
invincibly ignorant and use that assumption as an excuse to water down the Truth, as an excuse for telling them to “just be a good Protestant and you’ll be ok”. As a well known priest has said, “I’ve got a soul to save too you know.”
I guess if I had to sum up the approach, I’d say I always try to get them to realize just how eternally serious the stakes are, just how eternally important Truth is, and that we must not reject anything that is Truth, because in doing that, we would be rejecting Christ Himself. And how much of Christ can we reject and stil expect to enter Eternal Life with Him? Once they agree to this (and all I’ve found do), then take it from there.
Biggest hurdles I’ve found is definately
not the fact that they were born protestant (most of these folks have church-hopped numerous times in their lives already, or had once been catholic to begin with), but rather, getting them over the erroneous notion that the Church no longer believes conversion is necessary.
I am sure you can quote many documents saying that being Protestant is not very good, but how do you try to bring them to the full truth? By being equally hostile to them?
I think you’d be surprised. Really.
What you think of as being “hostile”, I’ve found protestants often welcome a direct yet charitable approach as a refreshing break from the religious indifference they usually encounter from Catholics.
But come to think of it now - a JW fella did accuse me of something like hostility though. Took about 50-60 email exchanges before the charge was laid though. I’ve got 'em all saved on my computer if you’d like to take a look…quite an interesting dialogue if you could imagine.
That’'s all for now…
Peace in Christ,
DustinsDad