Cult leaderships make their members wholly dependent on them, like making them ask permission to go to the toilet. Priests don’t have a vow of poverty, do they? They’re just supposed to live frugally(?)
My tuppenceworth: You need to damp down egotism but not make men dependent, effeminate or break their spirit. They’ll be required to run churches and parishes one day.
You are right that secular priests do not make any vows. The promise obedience to their bishop, but it’s a different kind of obedience than that which is practiced by religious. The promise celibacy. Even that is different from the vow of chastity made by religious. There is some legitimate concern when you train secular priests as if they were monastic or mendicant religious. The whole idea is that these are different callings. You should not confuse them or blend them. Being a secular priest is not the same as being a religious who is also a priest at the same time.
That being said, there is nothing effeminate about asking for permission, being dependent on a community and a superior. There is nothing cultish about it either and it does not break the spirit.
In our Franciscan tradition we do ask for permission for almost everything, including leaving the house. No we do not ask for permission to use the toilet. There are some things that are considered common sense. But we do ask for permission to buy things, to keep gifts, to go places, to travel, and even to pray extra hours. We do not have money in our pocket. Every house has a brother who is the procurator. He controls the funds of the community. When you need money you must ask him for it and you must tell him what it’s for. You must also sign for it.
We do have schedules that we follow, even if you’re attached to a parish. You must attend the Liturgy of the Hours with the community. You must drop everything to attend community meals, community recreation and community prayer. You must leave your parish alone for weeks at a time to attend the community retreat, a chapter or other important community matters. Usually you hire a secular priest or a priest from another religious order to cover your parish.
You may not be ordained without the permission of the supeior and the vote of the community. Our most famous case was Fr. Solanus Casey who made solemn vows as a Capuchin Franciscan, but the night before he made solemn vows he was ordered to write in his own hand that he would accept the denial of his request to be ordained, if the major superior so mandated. That was the only way that he could make solemn vows and remain in the order, if he put his entire future and life in the hands of the major superior. That has not changed in most mendicant and monastic orders and it has not broken anyone’s spirit or made anyone effeminate. I’m not sure whay you say this.
As to the seminarians of the neocatechumate, I have concerns, because this austerity is not part of the life of secular men. They are seculars, they are not consecrated men, even though they are a religious community of sorts. I’m not sure I know what their canonical status is. I hope that the experience will be good for the seminarians and not harmful for them when they find themselves among their secular confreres.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF
