She called me back and said the lady at the reference desk was not helpful and she happened to be wearing a Cross so mom is convinced she was stopping her from finding the truth
I told her I had a list from the forums here and that she needs to take a look at what we have come up with so far, and not to be hasty but to take it nice and slow.
So then I asked her if the Cross is a biggie for her and she said yep. She wants the JWs but without the disfellowshipping and without the door to door stuff being forced on her.
She wants to be a cafeteria JW basically.