In another thread I questioned whether the Vatican was correct, as the word ‘we’ in English can have the meaning ‘I’ when used by a monarch or similar person. As the priest stands in the place of Jesus, King of Kings, surely ‘we’ would be the correct formal English? There are also 10 languages that never make the distinction. Are all baptisms in those languages invalid?
I read the diocese’s Q&As and noticed they did not require those who married before the invalidly-baptised-and-therefore-invalidly-ordained priest to cease sexual relations until the sacrament was validly performed. Why would this be?
Father Hood married us before he was validly baptized and validly ordained. Is our marriage valid?
Due to the many different situations that the engaged couple may have been in, this answer may be different for each individual couple. You should speak to your pastor as soon as possible so any steps can be taken to remedy your marital status in the Church, if necessary.
It is important to note that if it is determined that your marriage is sacramentally invalid, you are not guilty of any sin – grave or otherwise – by living as husband and wife in the time since your ceremony. You can be comforted in the fact that God knows that you made every effort to follow His plan exactly for the Sacrament of Marriage.
The Church teaches that to be guilty of a sin, the act must be one that is known, deliberate, and voluntary, which would not have been possible while a couple was completely unaware of the possible sacramental invalidity of their marriage.