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Hi,

I wanted to ask for anyones prayers for me on this Thanksgiving. I had a relationship of 13 years end a few years ago and since then I’ve been mostly alone. I work, come home and just try to live my life but it’s always alone. My family has all passed and I have only one friend who lives many states away. I will be very alone this Thanksgiving and just trying to make it less sad.

A few prayers sure would be appreciated. I struggle daily with holding onto my faith…year after year I don’t understand the Lord’s plan for me but I keep pushing forward.

Thank you for any prayers you can send.
 
Hello John, I remember you of course.
Fortunately we don’t have that particular holiday here in Australia, so that’s a day that lonely people are spared of extra loneliness in counties outside America. It is specifically an American day of celebration rooted in your American history. I realize how important the day is to Americans, so wish you God’s blessings.

May God help you to find more meaning in life, along with other lonely people.
:grouphug:
God’s kindest blessings to you,
warm wishes, Trishie
 
Don’t worry,you have a friend,a true friend,you can’t see Him but he’s always there.

Also,you can always contact your friend with skype or something,technology these days:)

Happy Thanksgiving and God bless you.
 
**Our Father, Who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning,
is now,
and ever shall be,
world without end.
Amen.**
 
For nothing is hidden that will not become evident, nor anything secret that will not be known and come to light. Luke 8:17

Dear God of Heaven, look down upon John’s loneliness and bring him healing, peace, and joy. Direct his life to find happiness and love. Thank you for John’s life and let him know his purpose. Please forgive our sins. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen
 
**I am praying for you, John!
I spend most days alone and only on the Holidays do I
see anyone else. I know lonely and I am praying for you.
Praying Hard,
Dan ♰
**
 
I’m going to be alone today as well: My husband is on the road, and the rest of my family is a three-hour drive away. I’m heading off to Mass to thank Him for all the blessings I do have, and our nation has, and then I’m coming home, grilling a lobster that I picked up yesterday evening, making some phone calls on Skype, and then settling in to watch football.

Actually, I’ve been so busy lately with getting Mom into an assisted apartment (my niece is picking her up for the road trip,) closing up the old house and getting it on the market, and of course my regular full-time job, that NOT driving myself (and everyone around me) crazy over making and cleaning up after a Thanksgiving feast sounds like an incredible luxury.

If you’re really feeling miserable, though, go to your local homeless mission and see if they can use an extra hand serving food. Most likely, they will be very grateful! And you will feel better about the whole thing. When I lived alone when I was single, I’d regularly go and volunteer there. They really do appreciate the help. And you will feel better that you did not just waste a day and “did for” some of the least of Christ’s brothers and sisters.

God bless you.
 
John,
Will keep you in my prayers.

This can be a depressing time but try to recognize that you are not the only one alone and lonely.
Perhaps you can consider helping out at a charity of some sort…Nursing homes have many people in them who are also lonely this time of year.
When lonely people get together - they just might find that they aren’t alone any more.

May Christ hold you close and lead you through and out of your darkness.

Peace
James
 
Enjoy the memories you have of better Thanksgivings, and be thankful that you had the experience when some never had. We put so much effort into insisting that our holidays (notably Thanksgiving and Christmas) be the very best, the happiest, the most memorable, when in actuality the holidays still “happen” when we are “not in the mood”, or “ready” for them. As you will be lonely with many others in this country, think of all the folks who will be having that one special Thanksgiving that brings them great happiness…a feeling you well remember. I won’t be a cliche’ and order you to work at a Soup kitchen, etc., for you will find your own way…with a few words with God Who is waiting for your phone call. Happy Thanksgiving…

Jim
 
Merciful Lord, please embrace our brothers and sisters who have no earthly family—through death, separation, alienation, or displacement. Give them opportunities for a satisfying life. Allow them companionship with others, and lead them by avenues that will give them eternal communion with the family of Heaven.

Deepen our awareness of human fraternity with everyone, so that we may convey to anyone—who may have no close family, nor any particular attachments—that we are brothers and sisters in Christ, and that they are lovable and loved persons.

On this festive day where family togetherness is all around them yet not theirs, please let them find welcome and company. And grant them personal experience of Your love and of their unity with humankind.
 
Sacred Heart of Jesus
We place our trust in Thee

Sacred Heart of Jesus
We place our trust in Thee

Sacred Heart of Jesus
We place our trust in Thee
 
Hi John,
I think that the advice already given here about volunteering somewhere is excellent. In my experience most soup kitchens don’t stand on formality- you can just show up and say “what can I do to help?”. I spend a lot of time alone too but since I’m somewhat introverted I don’t mind so much most of the time. Is there a men’s group at your church? There’s probably a Knights of Columbus- I have never joined the Knights at my church because I’m not at all sure I could pull off a feathered hat and a cape but I have finally (after about five years) made some friends of some of the men in my parish who attend daily mass.
I know it’s hard to meet new people (it sure is for me anyway) but since you’re lonely it might be worth the effort to give it a try. If there is a deacon at your church you should talk to him and tell him your situation- I’ll bet he could introduce you to lots of new people- especially if you’re willing to volunteer a little time.
I’ll say a prayer for you- Happy Thanksgiving!
-Cliff
 
**Are there any service groups you can join in your area that are mixed, men and women ? The Lions come to mind. Those kinds of groups are great, you meet new people while helping out your commuinity.

Attitude is so much in life, and so is doing for others. It might seem uncomfortable for you at first, but keep at it, you will make new friends, I know you will.

Have yourself a good Thanksgiving friend, I’ll bet if you think about it, you do have much to be thankful for. I will keep you in my prayers John. **
 
Our Father, who art in heaven,
hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us,
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Dear Lord! Make us remember,
when the world seems cold and dreary
and we know not where
to turn for comfort,
that there is always one spot
bright and cheerful,
the Sanctuary.

When we are in desolation of spirit,
when all who are dear to us
have passed away like summer flowers
and none are left
to love us and care for us,
whisper to our troubled souls
that there is one Friend who dies not,
one who’s Love never changes
Jesus on the altar.

When sorrow thicken
and crush us with their burden,
when we look in vain for comfort,
let us remember Your words:
“Come to Me, all you who labor
and are heavily burdened,
and I will refresh you.” Amen.

Lord God, touch our souls
with your gentle hand.
Let your peace
pour into the soreness,
wash away the pain,
heal the damage
and give new strength
by your Holy Spirit.
Help us to forgive,
to renounce
any bitterness or resentment
and receive
the healing touch of Jesus. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace,
the Lord is with thee;
blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners, now
and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Holy Virgin, in the midst of your glorious days,
do not forget the sadness of earth.
Cast a look of goodness on those who are suffering,
who are fighting against difficulties.
Have pity on those who love one another
and who have been separated.
Have pity on the loneliness of our hearts.
Have pity on the weakness of our faith.
Have pity on the troubled objects of our love.
Have pity on those who are weeping,
on those who are praying,
on those who are seized with fear.
Give to all of us hope and peace with justice. Amen.

St. Raphael, Remember the weak, you who are strong -
you whose home lies beyond the region of thunder,
in a land that is always peaceful, always serene,
and bright with the resplendent glory of God. Amen.

St. Rita, pray for us!

St. Francis de Sales, pray for us!

St. Padre Pio, pray for us!

Holy Guardian Angels,
be always with us,
guide and protect us!

Glory be to the Father and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit,
as it was in the beginning, is now,
and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.
 
***Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.

Amen.
 
For the intentions of JohnD212:

PRAYER OF ST. THOMAS AQUINAS

Grant me, O Lord my God,
a mind to know you,
a heart to seek you,
wisdom to find you,
conduct pleasing to you,
faithful perseverance in waiting for you,
and a hope of finally embracing you.

Amen.
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
*For the intentions of JohnD212:
*
**PRAYER OF ST. THOMAS AQUINAS
**
Grant me, O Lord my God,
a mind to know you,
a heart to seek you,
wisdom to find you,
conduct pleasing to you,
faithful perseverance in waiting for you,
and a hope of finally embracing you.

Amen.
 
Sacred Heart of Jesus
We place our trust in Thee

Sacred Heart of Jesus
We place our trust in Thee

Sacred Heart of Jesus
We place our trust in Thee
 
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