Loving God vs. Vengeful God?

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My middle school religion students are perplexed, and I struggle to reconcile for them how the same God who is loving and merciful and encourages peacemaking also in Old Testament times calls for wars, destroys a city supernaturally, etc. I have presented these things as a warning to us, consequences for sin, etc. Also that God is the author of life and has the right to take it. Can you help me to better understand and explain? Thanks.
 
My middle school religion students are perplexed, and I struggle to reconcile for them how the same God who is loving and merciful and encourages peacemaking also in Old Testament times calls for wars, destroys a city supernaturally, etc. I have presented these things as a warning to us, consequences for sin, etc. Also that God is the author of life and has the right to take it. Can you help me to better understand and explain? Thanks.
Without specific stories, I would say that these things had to happen not just because He is a loving God, but more importantly because He is our loving Father. The OT is saturated with accounts of how Israel displeased God by succumbing to the temptations of the neighbors. If He left them to their own devices, all would be lost. But by “leading us not into temptation” (empowering them to remove their temptations), God was allowing His first-born the greatest chance to someday enjoy the beautific vision and be the light to all nations. The towns that were condemned were so because they were wicked and disobeyed God. This shows that God is just, not vengeful.

Although the circumstances of life have changed, we still make this same petition today. But we must realize that if we continue to indulge ourselves in temptations, it will also lead to our destruction. The OT stories paint a steadfast and vivid portrait of the reality that awaits us if we do not heed to its warnings. This is why St. Paul exhorts the Corinthians that “These things were written for our correction.” 1 Cor 10:11.
 
Two men are walking down the street. One is a pickpocket, and the other is afraid the pickpocket is going to pick his pocket. They both see a police officer. One objective reality, the police officer, provokes two very different subjective experiences for the two street-walkers. The pickpocket is afraid and frustrated, and the other man is happy and relieved.

I believe something similar is happening in the Old Testament. The accounts there are a true and inspired account of the Jews’ subjective experience of God. Did they understand God perfectly? No. Their records indicate this childlike, growing understanding of God, his will, and his goodness. Is it wrong? No, because they accurately record how they understood God.

Here is a video I once made about this subject: youtube.com/watch?v=f7qBepQ1SQk The stuff about the Old Testament is towards the end around 4:03

Enjoy!
 
This is the perennial question for all teachers - how to stress the facts and let go and let God. If you have presented them with the facts that these stories in the OT show the cost of sins and the mighty power of God, then you’ve done your job. Time to let go.

Keep in mind some children in their teens tend to ask a question that gets under your skin and annoys just because they know it does and don’t really want an answer. It might be the reason they do so. You could also try turning the question around and get them to write down in extra credit essays why THEY think it is so. This too will get them to explore the stories in the OT.

The stories in the OT are basic for our understanding of God. Some folks don’t “get it” till they are older. Some folks never get it at all. Your job is to deliver the message. It is God’s job to give the understanding. If it helps you, pray a Novena to the Holy Spirit that the gift of understanding may fall upon your students. He is after all the Author of those stories and can best explain them to each and every heart in your care.

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Middle school students, because they are mostly rebellious and shallow, are a perfect age for budding skeptics and atheists.

I would simply put it that God made us in his image and likeness. Just as we reward and punish others for good and bad behavior, so does God. The main difference is that when God does it you can be sure the righteous and the wicked always have kindness and punishment coming to them. Our motives, on the other hand, may or may not be suspect.
 
My middle school religion students are perplexed, and I struggle to reconcile for them how the same God who is loving and merciful and encourages peacemaking also in Old Testament times calls for wars, destroys a city supernaturally, etc. I have presented these things as a warning to us, consequences for sin, etc. Also that God is the author of life and has the right to take it. Can you help me to better understand and explain? Thanks.
This is why - in my admittedly amateur opinion - I’m leery about how Catholic kids are often taught from the catechism first and the scripture second, or it’s skipped over almost completely. Even if the catechism provides all of the teaching in a succinct, organized way, it’s kind of like skipping the part where you teach children how to do arithmetic and going straight to a calculator. They punch the numbers in to get the right answer, but they don’t actually know what’s really happening.

They’ve already probably got the idea of God’s grace and mercy buried into the head, so going back and teaching them about some of the events in scripture retroactively is going to involve some rewiring. They need to understand that grace & mercy are not surrogates to excuse impenitent human fault. They are the holy qualities of God that relieve us of our past transgressions so that we can avoid sin in the future. Sin in itself makes a person’s suffering and punishment justified, and we see that on several occasions in scripture, and the God from the Old Testament is very much the same God in the New Testament.

To some extent, they’re probably asking these questions because they’re at a contentious & rebellious age. You may be giving all the right answers, but they might not accept them. I’m not sure if there’s anything else you can do as a teacher from that point. The rest is God’s work.
 
There is a rule from St. Augustine: If an action of a Patriarch is immoral, then it must be a figure of speech." I have often wondered whether he applied this to God also.
 
My middle school religion students are perplexed, and I struggle to reconcile for them how the same God who is loving and merciful and encourages peacemaking also in Old Testament times calls for wars, destroys a city supernaturally, etc. I have presented these things as a warning to us, consequences for sin, etc. Also that God is the author of life and has the right to take it. Can you help me to better understand and explain? Thanks.
From ewtn: ewtn.com/vexperts/showmessage.asp?number=360562&Pg=&Pgnu=&recnu=
God the vengeful vs. Loving God
Question from John V on 3/8/2001:

Hello brother, I was watching Mother angelica live last night 3/7/01. And I must say that I loved it. Ironically, mother Angelica was not even on the show. Instead, there was this priest who was talking about the earthquake situation in El Salvador. He answered the question of whether or not the earthquake was God’s punishment. He said that he doesn’t believe in a vengeful, punishing God, but a loving one whose presence was not shown during the earthquake as much as after it through people’s cooperation and mutual assistance. Not to pick on Mother, but she has often related natural disasters to God’s punishment. She implied that India’s earthquake was related to their high abortion rate. My question is this, there are clearly two contrasting views here, which on am I going to follow? which one is more accurate? I need spiritual guidance. I personally am more compelled to serve Christ by the priests portrayal, and I become more skeptical upon hearing mother’s.

Sincerely a confused Catholic

Answer by David Gregson on 3/9/2001:
Father Pacwa and Mother Angelica are both right, of course. Father’s point was that we can’t assign blame on the basis of disasters, because they serve other purposes in God’s plan besides punishing sin (John 9:2-3). But that doesn’t mean disasters are never punishments for sin (Matt 23:37-39; Gen 19:12-28). Mother’s point is that no nation can continue to flaunt God’s laws without coming to ruin. His laws are guideposts to happiness, and He sometimes sends warnings when nations, or individuals, have strayed too far from the right road.
 
My middle school religion students are perplexed, and I struggle to reconcile for them how the same God who is loving and merciful and encourages peacemaking also in Old Testament times calls for wars, destroys a city supernaturally, etc. I have presented these things as a warning to us, consequences for sin, etc. Also that God is the author of life and has the right to take it. Can you help me to better understand and explain? Thanks.
The OT does not present an accurate picture of God And neither does the the NT for that matter. Albeit, the NT is a more enlightened conception of God. (Our understanding of God is evolving. I think that is the best way to approach it.)
 
Thanks all for the insightful comments! Much appreciated. Genesis 18 and 19 certainly show God’s loving concern right alongside his punishment. He would have spared the whole wicked city had there been a handful of righteous people there. The punishment itself was in response to an outcry for help, presumably from the oppressed. God involved Abraham to impress on him how important faithfulness and obedience will be for his descendants. Yes, there is some hard-heartedness in my students, but also some genuine searching to know God.
 
The OT does not present an accurate picture of God And neither does the the NT for that matter. Albeit, the NT is a more enlightened conception of God. (Our understanding of God is evolving. I think that is the best way to approach it.)
this is a view that has always troubled me. yes, our understanding of God is evolving, but the books of the bible should not have “evolved.” if we are to believe the bible is the word of God, then how can we argue that the word of God has evolved? has the way God treats his children evolved? I think a better way of looking at it is from the perspective of an every day parent, like myself. I have two children, and I deal with them in different ways. I love them equally, but show them love differently. I discipline them equally, but talk to them and punnish them differently. I believe God acts in much the same way.
 
this is a view that has always troubled me. yes, our understanding of God is evolving, but the books of the bible should not have “evolved.” if we are to believe the bible is the word of God, then how can we argue that the word of God has evolved? has the way God treats his children evolved? I think a better way of looking at it is from the perspective of an every day parent, like myself. I have two children, and I deal with them in different ways. I love them equally, but show them love differently. I discipline them equally, but talk to them and punnish them differently. I believe God acts in much the same way.
That may be in your case, but we are talking about an entity that goes from door to door killing children…children who would be blameless in the events. God…using the lives of children to make a point…makes one go Hmmmmmm.
 
That may be in your case, but we are talking about an entity that goes from door to door killing children…children who would be blameless in the events. God…using the lives of children to make a point…makes one go Hmmmmmm.
“Killing children”?

Again you’ve confined yourself to your perspective to your limited opinion.

If the eternal,invisible and immaterial are necessarily more important, more permanent, and thus more “real” than the corporeal and the temporary, then if follows that physical death is less of an evil than spiritual-eternal death.

Thus the deaths of children raised in institutional sin, such as pagan Egypt, or the physical deaths of Canaanite children who will have eventually been sacrificed to the Canaanite pagan god “Molech”, are less of an evil, and have even saved their souls, instead to allow them to sin as their parents did.

Thus, from the eternal perspective of God, their physical deaths were in fact merciful, for had they lived they would in fact be eternally lost.

That’s the truth. Take it or leave it.
 
“Killing children”?

Again you’ve confined yourself to your perspective to your limited opinion.

If the eternal,invisible and immaterial are necessarily more important, more permanent, and thus more “real” than the corporeal and the temporary, then if follows that physical death is less of an evil than spiritual-eternal death.

Thus the deaths of children raised in institutional sin, such as pagan Egypt, or the physical deaths of Canaanite children who will have eventually been sacrificed to the Canaanite pagan god “Molech”, are less of an evil, and have even saved their souls, instead to allow them to sin as their parents did.

Thus, from the eternal perspective of God, their physical deaths were in fact merciful, for had they lived they would in fact be eternally lost.

That’s the truth. Take it or leave it.
I’ll leave it , thank you very much. Their death were “less of an evil” because of what their parents were doing? Remember, it is your belief system that says that God knew each and every one of these children before they were conceived. The God of Abraham created these children, knowing that He would kill them because their parents did not believe a certain way? BTW, which way was that at the time? The covenant was specifically with the Jewish people and Jesus was in the distant future.
 
That may be in your case, but we are talking about an entity that goes from door to door killing children…children who would be blameless in the events. God…using the lives of children to make a point…makes one go Hmmmmmm.
this is the definition of “out of context.” let’s not forget that this was the TENTH plague bestowed on the Egyptians. the pharaoh was warned of this plague, and after witnessing the first nine plagues still would not free the Israelites. this wasn’t the first plague. it wasn’t done without warning. so was it God, or the actions of the pharaoh that killed those children? additionally, let’s also not forget that during their enslavement, millions of Israelite first born sons were killed by the Egyptians.

Now if you still want to say that you won’t worship a God that would allow innocent children to be killed, that’s fine. but what we actually know from scripture must be laid out before we can understand the full context and have a reasonable discussion.
 
I’ll leave it , thank you very much. Their death were “less of an evil” because of what their parents were doing?
What their parents were doing the children were doing too. If you cannot see this trend throughout both the first two books of the Pentateuch and the consequences of such sinfulness, and how these consequences are laid out by Paul in Romans 1,then you are plainly more ignorant of Scripture than I originally suspected.
Remember, it is your belief system that says that God knew each and every one of these children before they were conceived. The God of Abraham created these children, knowing that He would kill them because their parents did not believe a certain way?
Frankly, yes. God gave Pharaoh plenty of opportunities to NOT do what He did. In fact I would argue that their deaths and their blood is entirely on the hands of Pharaoh and not on God. Pharaoh had every chance and every opportunity to choose other than what he did; he in fact DID choose correctly and then later recanted.

I would further argue that there is no reason not to expect that those children were saved by Christ and will be reunited with their bodies at the resurrection.

Your assertion only “works” if physical death is permanent; it is not. Eternal death is permanent for those, like Pharaoh and others who refuse him, who harden their hearts at God and reject His kindness and grace.

Thus God shows His infinite love and mercy as opposed to your nihilistic philosophy.
BTW, which way was that at the time? The covenant was specifically with the Jewish people and Jesus was in the distant future.
Wrong, the Abrahamic covenant was still in effect, which is the covenant with Abraham AND his descendants through faith; there was no Mosaic Law yet.
 
What their parents were doing the children were doing too. If you cannot see this trend throughout both the first two books of the Pentateuch and the consequences of such sinfulness, and how these consequences are laid out by Paul in Romans 1,then you are plainly more ignorant of Scripture than I originally suspected.

Frankly, yes. God gave Pharaoh plenty of opportunities to NOT do what He did. In fact I would argue that their deaths and their blood is entirely on the hands of Pharaoh and not on God. Pharaoh had every chance and every opportunity to choose other than what he did; he in fact DID choose correctly and then later recanted.

I would further argue that there is no reason not to expect that those children were saved by Christ and will be reunited with their bodies at the resurrection.

Your assertion only “works” if physical death is permanent; it is not. Eternal death is permanent for those, like Pharaoh and others who refuse him, who harden their hearts at God and reject His kindness and grace.

Thus God shows His infinite love and mercy as opposed to your nihilistic philosophy.

Wrong, the Abrahamic covenant was still in effect, which is the covenant with Abraham AND his descendants through faith; there was no Mosaic Law yet.
Sorry…none of your excuses justify the murder of children by an all-powerful entity in any real world. Remember, I don’t believe that God had anything to do with it or that He is a murderer before calling me nihilistic.I believe in God…just not the one described in the bible.
BTW, the last sentence was sarcasm to point out that the covenant did not apply to any of the people you deemed worthy of slaughter. Nor am I aware of any evangelists to the Canaanites. I guess the American Natives were just lucky that they didn’t get slaughtered.

I wonder why that was?.
 
Sorry…none of your excuses justify the murder of children by an all-powerful entity in any real world.
Non-sequitur. Already refuted. Repeating your false assertions ad-nauseum doesn’t make them any more true.
Remember, I don’t believe that God had anything to do with it or that He is a murderer before calling me nihilistic.I believe in God…just not the one described in the bible.
1)Which is no God at all. Its a god of your creation, created after your own image and likeness.
2) I never called you nihilistic. Nor can you quote me where I did. I called your philosophy nihilistic(which it ultimately is). Big difference.
BTW, the last sentence was sarcasm to point out that the covenant did not apply to any of the people you deemed worthy of slaughter. Nor am I aware of any evangelists to the Canaanites. I guess the American Natives were just lucky that they didn’t get slaughtered.

I wonder why that was?.
Ad-hominum. Which again proves what I said earlier to be true, Deism is NOT a tolerant belief system, especially to beliefs which contradict it.
 
In the time of the Canaanites, God was forming a people of His own, who would acknowledge His holiness and simplicity, the God Who Is (I Am). Over and against this stood the profane religion of the Canaanites, steeped in child sacrifice, erotic religious rites, and general immorality.

I lifted this from the following site -

davelivingston.com/mooncity.htm
The Depravity of the Canaanites
To understand why Jehovah told Israel to wipe out the Canaanites, one needs to understand Canaanite religion and customs.
At the heart of Canaanite religion was sex in all its perversions. The land was polluted with indescribable immorality. They were hopelessly lost and incurable. To illustrate:
And thou shalt not let any of thy seed pass through the fire to Molech, neither shalt thou profane the name of thy God: I am the Lord. Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination. Neither shalt thou lie with any beast to defile thyself therewith; neither shall any woman stand before a beast to lie down thereto: it is confusion. Defile not ye yourselves in any of these things; for in all these the nations are defiled, which I cast out before you. And the land is defiled; therefore I do visit the iniquity thereof upon it and the land itself vomiteth out her inhabitants. Ye shall therefore keep my statutes and mine ordinances, and shall not commit any of these abominations; neither any of your own nation, nor any stranger that sojourneth among you (For all these abominations have the men of the land done, who were before you, and the land is defiled); That the land spew not you out also, when ye defile it, as it spewed out the nations that were before you. (Leviticus 18:21-28)
For the incredible corruption of the gods, see Albright’s Archaeology and the Religion of Israel, (pp. 76-77).
The Canaanites lost no time in substituting carnality for the grace of the Babylonian originals. Both in these plaques and in later ones the female organs are accentuated in various ways, nearly all of them more direct and less restrained than was true of Babylonia . . . . The lily and serpent are characteristically Canaanite; the former indicates the charm and grace of the bearer - in a word, her sex appeal - and the latter symbolizes her fecundity. It was only natural that the Phoenicians would attribute to Astarte’s two sons, named (according to Philo) “Sexual Desire” (Pothos) and “Sexual Love” (Eros). . . . At its best there can be little doubt that there was a certain amount of aesthetic charm about Canaanite literary and artistic portrayal of these goddesses; in the Keret Epic, for instance, the hero’s betrothed is poetically described as having “the charm of Anath” and “the beauty of Astarte.” At its worst however, the erotic aspect of their cult must have sunk to extremely sordid depths of social degradation. Besides being patronesses of sexual life these interesting ladies were also goddesses of war. Anath or Astarte is depicted in Egyptian representations of the New Empire as a naked woman astride a galloping horse, brandishing shield and lance in her outflung hands. In the Baal Epic there is a harrowing description of Anath’s thirst for blood. For a reason which still escapes us she decided to carry out a general massacre: “With might she hewed down the people of the cities, she smote the folk of the seacoast, she slew the men of the sunrise (east).” After filling her temple (it seems) with men, she barred the gates so that none might escape, after which “she hurled chairs at the youths, tables at the warriors, footstools at the men of might.” The blood was so deep that she waded in it up to her knees - nay, up to her neck. Under her feet were human heads, above her human hands flew like locusts. In her sensuous delight she decorated herself with suspended heads, while she attached hands to her girdle. Her joy at the butchery is described in even more sadistic language: “Her liver swelled with laughter, her heart was full of joy, the liver of Anath (was full of) exultation (?).” Afterwards Anath “was satisfied” and washed her hands in human gore before proceeding to other occupations. (See all of pp. 68-94 for fuller details.)
By the time of Christ, Israel was solidly monotheistic, and no longer tempted by the idolatrous practices of surrounding nations, although some were attracted to Greek humanism. Christ did not have to deal with people who threw their first born into the burning arms of Molech, but was talking to a people with a thousand years of monotheistic theological development behind them.

You might also be interested in the following -

christ.org.tw/bible_and_theology/Bible/Burnt_Offering_of_Children.htm

What you need to do is to point out the absolute depravity of the Canaanites, and indicate that is why God had given up on them. By way of a modern example, you might also say that of the German males born in 1923, only 10% of them survived World War II. You might say it was a form of divine judgement for the Nazi holocaust. I still remember talking to a young bloke who’d travelled in Germany in the mid 1970’s and he made the comment then that he noticed there were “no old men”. It would be different now of course with the baby bomber coming of age.
 
My middle school religion students are perplexed, and I struggle to reconcile for them how the same God who is loving and merciful and encourages peacemaking also in Old Testament times calls for wars, destroys a city supernaturally, etc. I have presented these things as a warning to us, consequences for sin, etc. Also that God is the author of life and has the right to take it. Can you help me to better understand and explain? Thanks.
Primitive interpretations of events should be taken with a large pinch of salt particularly when they conflict with the teaching of Jesus that all of us have a loving Father in heaven:
But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.
Matthew 5:45
 
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