New York does not have no-fault divorce laws. This means fault has to be proved before a divorce can be granted. Net effect - many work out their problems. No-fault divorce is an easy way to exit the marriage - net effect - leaving women alone with their children in poverty.
Check the law where you live.
From Liberalism is a Sin
Between her and the people, it seeks to dig a deeper and deeper abyss of hate, prejudice and calumny. NATURALISM, THE DENIAL OF THE SUPERNATURAL, IT INCULCATES EVERYWHERE. To divorce the entire life of the people from her influence—
by the institution of civil marriage, by civil burial and divorce,
by teaching the insidious doctrine that society as such has no religious relations or obligations and that man as a social and civil being is absolutely independent of God and His Church and that religion is a mere private opinion to be entertained or not entertained, as one pleases such is the program, such is the effect, and such, in turn, is the cause of Liberalism. But the most pernicious—because the most successful and lasting—propagator of Liberalism is:
In practice, this principle ingratiates itself into social and civic life, directly or indirectly working out to the prejudice of religion and morality:
Civil marriage and divorce, mixed marriages and the consequent degeneration of family life, business standards and morality in general pitched on a low key, a vicious literature, a materialistic journalism catering to lax thinking and lax living, religion publicly mocked, scoffed, denied or held indifferently; all these things are coldly regarded as a matter of course, a necessary expedience, things to be condoned and applauded, all on the ground that they are the fruit of liberty. But the most virulent effect crops out in the prevailing educational theory. Here Liberalism manifests itself in its most direful and fullest effects, for it denies to religion the very sphere where it has the strongest right and the fullest reason to use its widest and most lasting influence, viz., upon the minds of children.