And technically, this is not true. If you don’t believe a thing exists, then it is not a choice. If you don’t believe in God, or Hell, then there is no choice.
When discussing with people of other life perspectives, sometimes it is useful to step outside of your own, at least enough to see how they might see things, just for the sake of understanding.
Atheists “get” that theist really believe in their gods. But often, in discussion, theists fail to “get” that atheists really don’t believe. They keep thinking that they believe, but are angry, or in denial, or being contradictory for the heck of it. Try to “get” that they really don’t believe there is a god. To them, god is like the boogie monster, a concept some people think is real, but not something taken seriously by those who know it is not real.
They know there is no god with the same certainty that you know there is one. Their godless universe is as real to them as your god filled one.
cheddar