I don’t believe I implied that. I think I was trying to express the thought that it is by our choices that we merit eternal torment, as it is written on every heart/conscience what is right and what is wrong and for a Catholic who knows their Faith this is even more clear. Whilst they might be pursuing the temporal pleasure of the sex act, for example, they still know they have chosen a lesser good rather than choosing their ultimate good ie God by obeying His Commandments.
Thank you for the clarification. I am not and was not trying to be gratuitously nitpicky about word-choices. It’s just that this topic is an example of one in which I think explicit distinctions matter greatly, e.g. “means” and “ends”, “choices” and “consequence”, especially because the inner rationality or coherence of our beliefs about God (his justice, goodness) hang in the balance. The work of apologetics has to wrestle with the topic of Hell and people find different ways of trying to reconcile the tension between “the unconditional love of God” with “the punishment of eternal torment”.
Unfortunately, some attempts at doing that I think undermine common sense and the credibility of the Faith.
In another thread, someone said that God doesn’t condemn sinners to Hell; they condemn themselves. This is another example of a statement that I don’t think stands to reason (if taken literally – the second half). It’s possible that the person didn’t mean this literally, but was just trying to convey the idea that humans make choices that result in eternal misery (
not that they
will to be miserable), however, it isn’t always clear if that’s all that’s being done, or, if one is trying, at all costs, to portray God as the ‘passive’ player in all this with no responsibility whatsoever for the “damnation of souls”.
And that is why I object so strongly to language that sounds like humans choose Hell. It seems to me to be so obviously false. The very fact that people constantly choose lesser goods (because pleasure is so immediate…the joy of Heaven distant…) is proof positive to me that humans have
a strong, natural inclination away from pain and misery. Not only that, but when humans are subjected to suffering, especially for extended periods, that they find unbearable or overwhelming, they often resort to forms of escape or remedy, alcohol, drugs, sex, counseling, antidepressants, etc.
Sometimes, humans willingly endure suffering for the sake of a good, e.g. you see a vicious dog charging at a toddler and you intervene and acquire injury. But suffering that serves no purpose in the order of charity (the sleep deprived mother, the wounded soldier), self-discipline or edification is quite repugnant to humans, that’s why they avoid it by default (“fight or flight”), the most extreme example of this being suicide.
So, if the goal is to defend the traditional concept of Hell, I think one may say “Humans (knowingly) risk Hell by choosing x,y, z” but not “Humans choose Hell”.