Marriage in Crisis - Prayers

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Happy Advent and Merry Christmas to all!

I am not going to hash details in this thread and I really to not need advise. I just need prayers.

I truly believe marriage is my vocation, but my marriage is drastically declining. I have been married for a few years now and we have no kids.

I have had more than one priest and more than one consular let me know “I really do not have a marriage” (to keep it simple).

I have tried hard to make it work, but can no longer handle the varying degrees abuse and other problems we have had.

I have prayed hard and gave it time(a couple years).

Here is why I need the prayers…

My wife has not idea of my current mindset. Through my consoling I have finally I believe gained the strength to talk to my wife. I know I have made mistakes(no mortal sins) , but I deserve none of the things that has happened to me. I have asked both consular’s to let me know my makes, but they have not shared. I just know I am humane and as humane mistakes happen. I know I need to change (but this changes are only going to cause more conflict in our marriage).

I know I cannot change my wife. I know if she wants to change she can change, but I do not see this happening.

I pray to god and others(saint, mary, etc) daily to help me handle my situation and provide me with his answers not what I want. I would love to remain marriage to my wife, but I do not know if that is in gods plan.

Peace and blessings!
 
Lord, may Mike do your will. In his vows he promised to remain with his wife in good times and in bad. These are the bad times and he needs strength, courage, peace, deep faith, sure hope, and burning love to remain in this marriage. Please help him, and grant him the graces he needs to remain faithful to you and docile to your holy will. Thank you, Lord, for hearing my prayer.
 
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
Mike reading all your other posts
it is evident that your marriage is in serious trouble
and your priest seems to believe, it is invalid,
or he would not offer to help you with an annulment,
and if he didn’t think your marriage is invalid
your priest wouldn’t advise you to seek an annulment, as you state he does in an earlier thread.
My prayers for your decision, that it will be according to God’s wishes.
May God bless you.
 
*Prayers for Mike my brother in Christ, who finds himself in a “Crisis” situation,

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

O my Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us form the fires of hell, lead all souls to heaven, especially those in most need of your mercy. Amen. *:signofcross:
 
I suggest going to adoration and praying for her before our Lord. As patient as you have been, more is needed. Ask, and it will be given you.

**Our Father, Who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning,
is now,
and ever shall be,
world without end.
Amen.**
 
Praying for you and entrusting you to the loving guidance of Our Blessed Mother:

We take refuge under thy protection, holy Mother of God; do not despise our prayers for Mike and his marriage in time of necessity, but protect him from all dangers, O blessed and glorious Virgin. Amen.
 
mike1976 said:
Happy Advent and Merry Christmas to all!

I am not going to hash details in this thread and I really to not need advise. I just need prayers.

I truly believe marriage is my vocation, but my marriage is drastically declining. I have been married for a few years now and we have no kids.

I have had more than one priest and more than one consular let me know “I really do not have a marriage” (to keep it simple).

I have tried hard to make it work, but can no longer handle the varying degrees abuse and other problems we have had.

I have prayed hard and gave it time(a couple years).

Here is why I need the prayers…

My wife has not idea of my current mindset. Through my consoling I have finally I believe gained the strength to talk to my wife. I know I have made mistakes(no mortal sins) , but I deserve none of the things that has happened to me. I have asked both consular’s to let me know my makes, but they have not shared. I just know I am humane and as humane mistakes happen. I know I need to change (but this changes are only going to cause more conflict in our marriage).

I know I cannot change my wife. I know if she wants to change she can change, but I do not see this happening.

I pray to god and others(saint, mary, etc) daily to help me handle my situation and provide me with his answers not what I want. I would love to remain marriage to my wife, but I do not know if that is in gods plan.

Peace and blessings!
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Praying for your intentions….

Lord Jesus, You have said, “Learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart.” With confidence in Your loving heart which offers rest to weary souls, we come to You in this time of special need. In Your unfailing love, read the prayer that is written on our hearts, and grant the grace that we ask of You, in accordance with Your holy will. In Your name we pray. Amen.

Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, and sought thy intercession, was left unaided. Inspired with this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother, to thee I come, before thee I stand sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate! Despise not my petitions, but, in thy mercy, hear and answer me. Amen.
 
:crossrc: Hail Mary, full of grace,
the Lord is with thee;
blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners, now
and at the hour of our death. Amen. :crossrc:
 
Praying for you. God bless you!

Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thine intercession was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my mother; to thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me.

Amen.
 
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