I think you should avoid him and any discussions on relationship. Emotional affairs start easily and insidiously. Emotional affairs can escalate to physical affairs, but both are adultery, both undermine the marriage and drain the feelings and attention that should go to the spouse.
Don’t underestimate the impact of of body language and of non-verbal communication.
**"The power of nonverbal communication and body language
Nonverbal communication, or body language, is a vital form of communication. When we interact with others, we continuously give and receive countless wordless signals. All of our nonverbal behaviors—the gestures we make, the way we sit, how fast or how loud we talk, how close we stand, how much eye contact we make—send strong messages.
The way you listen, look, move, and react tell the other person whether or not you care and how well you’re listening. The nonverbal signals you send either produce a sense of interest, trust, and desire for connection—or they generate disinterest, distrust, and confusion. "**
helpguide.org/mental/eq6_nonverbal_communication.htm
Matthew 5:28 Jesus said
"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
James 1:15
"Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death."
