Married priest replaces cleric who fell in love with parishioner

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I think Francis has amended that to allow Eastern rites to ordain married men in the US.
Yes. See here.

In my neighborhood in Brooklyn, New York, we have a Maronite church (just a few blocks from my home). In fact, it’s the seat of the Maronite bishop, or eparch, Gregory Mansour. He’s effectively the bishop of the eastern half of the United States.

I wonder how this development will play out locally? Will we see married priests at Our Lady of Lebanon (the local Maronite church and the seat of Bishop Mansour)? We’ve already got one married Roman Catholic priest in the 'hood – a former Episcopalian priest. He’s at a nearby parish, the one I at which I usually attend Mass.
 
Yes. See here.

In my neighborhood in Brooklyn, New York, we have a Maronite church (just a few blocks from my home). In fact, it’s the seat of the Maronite bishop, or eparch, Gregory Mansour. He’s effectively the bishop of the eastern half of the United States.

I wonder how this development will play out locally? Will we see married priests at Our Lady of Lebanon (the local Maronite church and the seat of Bishop Mansour)? We’ve already got one married Roman Catholic priest in the 'hood – a former Episcopalian priest. He’s at a nearby parish, the one I at which I usually attend Mass.
I have not been to St Sharbel’s here in Portland for several years; but as I understand it, we now have several men living in community with the abouna in the first monestary in the west. For a community of about 50 families, that is not bad at all.
 
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What you say about vows is important, but it ignores the bigger issue. Can a married man be a ‘good priest’? Obviously so, because the church ordains them. The fact that it only does so when there is ‘certain history’ such as an Anglican minister converting to Catholicism shows a narrow set of rules that have no real justification in fact.

There has to be a reason for a discipline to exist. The only reason I can think of for this discipline is that there is something about married priests that is ‘bad’ or ‘lesser’ when compared to celibate priests. But clearly the Church doesn’t believe this as they ordain them.

Bottom line, if some married Anglican minister can convert and become a ‘good priest’ why in the world would a cradle Catholic married man not be equally qualified to be a ‘good priest’?
 
There is an inaccuracy in your first citation; it says that in the eastern rites ‘In the East, priests but not bishops may marry’ which blatantly incorrect; married men may be ordained, but in the East, priests may not marry - with one exception; and that is a married man who is ordained; has young children, and the wife dies; by permission he may remarry.

And as to the second citation, the bit about “angelic purity” strikes right at the heart of another sacrament - marriage. So people who marry are “impure”??? Or are we going to slide around that one and say “Well, just less pure…, but of course, not impure…”

And neither one really gets to the heart of the matter. In the Catholic Church (not the “Roman Catholic Church”, there are both married and celibate priests. Both articles have a lingering red herring, that somehow, if the Roman rite should allow married men to be ordained, why, heavens to Betsy, celibacy would be done away with. That one gets so tiring as it is simply an illogical red herring to the conversation.

This issue has been hashed and rehashed in these forae, and the same tired, ill-thought out lame excuses come forward (and I am not accusing you of those). The Church (not just the Roman wing of it) has managed to preach the Good News, deliver the sacraments, and save souls for +/- 2000 years with both a celibate and a married clergy. The world, Christianity, and the Church has not gone into a tailspin because of it.

We have had a time of having married deacons, and to the best of my knowledge, that has not turned into a massive fiasco. We also have had a time, within the Roman rite, of having married men ordained to the priesthood, and I have not seen or heard of any massive fiasco due to that either.

Celibacy is not going to disappear if we start ordaining married, cradle Catholic men. I would submit that in fact, celibacy will be seen as what it should be seen as, and that is, a charism to which some are called; and that should, if anything, strengthen the call to celibacy, rather than denigrate it. We certainly have a long history of both men and women choosing to lie celibate lives, and not ordained; and that call has been one that perhaps until recently was not as displayed and celebrated as well as it could have been.

We are not going to settle this; but the Church has a history of moving very slowly, and that movement has been, of recent (as in the last 50 years of less), to ordain married men to the deaconate, and to the priesthood ( the latter albeit very limited by original status). It may be that in my lifetime, short as that may be, I will see the opening to ordaining married cradle Catholic men. Would that this would happen.
 
I know there is no inconsistency however I also don’t believe in rubbing salt into a wound and I believe this to be a stupid decision. The replacement priest should have been celibate.
 
I know there is no inconsistency however I also don’t believe in rubbing salt into a wound and I believe this to be a stupid decision. The replacement priest should have been celibate.
I am quite familiar with this parish as I used it as a case study within a paper I presented on a topic about a year and a half ago.

Of course things have time to change but my own questions and surveys noted a very strong liberal tendency within this parish so I would strongly suspect a married cleric was an attempt to pander to them. This church has also had at least three (I was told four but I could get no concrete confirmation of the fourth, supposedly it was “hushed up”) priests moved out of the parish or criminally charged with multiple counts of child sex abuse within the space of fifteen years so it is not a typical parish.

At first appearance it appears to be in bad taste, but when you consider there has been a relatively recent and rather colorful record of sex abuse by supposedly celibate men a man in a long standing marriage is actually quite a reassuring choice.
 
My understanding is that secular priests don’t actually make a vow of celibacy. They make a promise of celibacy (not getting married) and obedience to their bishop. Celibacy implies complete sexual continence, as chastity according to one’s state in life means that sexual relations are only permissible within a valid marriage.

A secular priest who has a sexual relationship is sinning against chastity, not breaking a vow. It is the same as other sins against chastity such as fornication (or adultery if it involves a person married to someone else).

Vows are made by consecrated religious, not diocesan priests.
 
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