I was able to at least battle to a stalemate most of the topics, except for conversations on Mary. The Pastor told me “I don’t mean it to brag or boast, but I’ve thoroughly read and examined the Bible, and no where does it say that we should be praying to Mary.” He also added “I don’t even understand the purpose of the Rosary…it doesn’t talk about it in the Bible.”
I didn’t have a responce

or a good one.
Any suggestions as we will continue this conversation via a fire some night in the soon future?
Thanks!
This is an excellent place to try to open up their (your non-Catholic, Christian friends) eyes.
Many respondents have pointed to scriptural references to respect and devotion for Mary, and those are good points.
Personally, I tend to look at this as a point of common sense:
If I were to visit a friend, I would be respectful to their mother, just because she is their mother.
I hope that Jesus is with me at all times, and as I see Christ as God, the second person of the trinity, of course, I will honor his mother as He honored His mother Himself.
We have the Fourth Commandment of the 10 Commandments that tell us to honor our Father and our Mother. Mary was given to US as our Mother when Christ was on the Cross. One of his last ‘seven words’ was that act. She is our mother, so we should honor her.
There are those that say she is dead. But I believe in John 3:16, where we are promised everlasting life (and if we Believe in God, we will honor Him as Mary did - so I believe she has been rewarded with everlasting life)
The Rosary itself is not a prayer to Mary - the Hail Mary prayer is. But the Rosary is a reflection on the life of Christ. Most of the times we see as milestones in His life, Mary was at His side.
(I have a tendency to back off from defending prayers TO Mary, but there is biblical references telling us to pray unceasingly, to pray to the saints, to have our prayers offered up by the Saints in heaven - we SHOULD pray TO (directly to) Mary)
Many people that are into Sola Scriptura will tell you of the things that are not in the Bible, I ask them: are cars in the Bible? How did you get here? Is television in the Bible? What did you watch last night?
The Rosary is a memory/meditation tool. It allows us to, as we pray to Mary, to reflect upon the life of Christ, and the meaning of each of those 20 (including the Luminous Mysteries) moments in His life.
Imagine a friend of mine was devoted to his mother, and he had to go away for a while. He was a good friend of mine, and I wanted to be a good friend to him. Then, I don’t even call his mother to check on her. I don’t acknowledge her on Mother’s day. I know she needs to get to a doctor, and I do nothing. What kind of friend would I be?
Then, we have Jesus, who died on the cross for MY sins, and I can’t even give His mothers the roses of a rosary?
Ask your ‘friend’, if he’ll treat Jesus that way, how will he treat you?