Thanks everyone for the great replies, I got a lot of good new perspective out of this. One of the things that bothers me the most is that this debate on Mary, just continues to go in circles with my friend and I. When I point out that she was indeed “saved” (Luke 1:47), by the merits of Christ in advance, then he asks why couldn’t we all be saved in the same way. He just doesn’t see that making sense. When I point out the significance and importance of her nature, because she is the ark of the new covenant, then we go back to “if she was perfect, then she needed no savior.” Maybe my inexperience with apologetics keeps me in this circle, but there’s got to be a way to get my friend to at least acknowledge that our belief is a valid and biblical one. Thanks again.
You might want to note that:
Mary, although sinless, was still human. Until her Son’s Passion, the gates of heaven were closed to *all *humanity, no matter their piety. Her Son created not only a perfect union of God and man, but a perfect sacrifice that, by Jesus’s nature as both God and man, MUST be able enter heaven, and therefore allow others who are like Him to follow as well. Jesus, not Mary, is the template, or “ticket” that allows entry into heaven.
We were not purged of original sin as Mary because God chose not to. I realize that this answer may not satisfy your friend, but remind him that God is not human and sees far more of everything, including reasons of why and why not, than we do.
Besides, God didn’t have to remove the taint of original sin from all of us because Christ’s new covenant provided us an earthly process to do so. That’s baptism.
But the key here is
choice. While Mary received the grace of immaculate conception at birth (without reason coming to play), she still had to *choose to accept *God’s plan for Christ’s birth within her, as shown in
Luke 1:26-38. Likewise, we must choose to have a similar grace given to us. God does not violate our free will, therefore removing the taint of original sin without asking us–in a sense, *forcing *us to love him–would be anathema to His nature.
So long as we maintain that grace ourselves by avoiding mortal sin, we are the same as Mary in terms of worthiness to enter heaven–although more inclined to sin than she was.
ScriptureCatholic has many Biblical citations that indicate the necessity of baptism (and, mind you, at birth, not at some arbitrary “age of reason”, paralleling the Jewish rite of circumcision) to receive the fuller graces of God.
Mary didn’t need baptism because (1) she was a Jew and a woman (only *infant *boys, through circumcision, were brought into Judaism by formal initiation) and (2) her Son had not instituted this New Covenant process before her birth and (3) her special grace with God already provided to Mary what baptism would otherwise give her.