"Mary was a EVER-virgin, ya right!"

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I do not think you are going to have much luck no matter what you do because the person seems to know it all and can’t stand to be wrong. I wouldn’t start with Mary any way I would start with AUTHORITY and then work up to other issues. Once the authority issue is settled everything else falls into line.
I totaly agree with you about this person seeming to know it all and can’t stand to be wrong.
The more I read the OP, the clearer it gets.
The sad part is; a person such as this (who even adds his own words to Sacred Scripture), would never accept “Authority”.
Especially the Authority of the Catholic Church.
God only knows what misconceptions and accusations he’s been poisoned with since he left the Church.

Poor Joe has his work cut out for him.

God Bless!
 
Poor Holy Spirit, you mean! 😉

The best thing is always to pray - you never can tell what might happen.
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You said it!
This is a job for OMNIPOTENSE! :gopray2:

[SIGN]Come O’ Holy Spirit, Thou;
Knock some sense into OP’s pal!
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Sadly, I must agree. My wife was a cradle Catholic who found that she could not receive cogent answers from her parish priest, so she is now a ‘non-denominational’ Christian who loves Jesus very much. We don’t talk about His Mother at all, she who has given me many blessings.
I converted from non-denominationalism about 20 years ago, and have never developed a habit of going to a priest for answers to questions. Maybe this was something that was developed in me by during my Protestant years. Believe me, you can’t trust anyone over there, either! There are plenty of “leaders” in these non-denom groups, but few of them know what they’re talking about. People! We need to be finding our own answers to questions. We have catechisms, bibles, internet resources, etc. Heck, the new Compendium of the Catechism put out by USCCB is about as bite-worthy as it gets. Priests should be left alone to say Mass and hear confessions, and do the other sacramental things that we need them for. The so-called priest shortage means that lay people need to stand up, get informed, live the faith themselves and not expect priests to hold their hands for every little thing. It really should’ve been this way all along. Maybe there were too many priests in earlier years.
 
IFirst off thanks for this information. there are several problems with it. One is Joseph was going to divorce mary when he found out that she was pregnant. If he did not want to marry her because he was old with kids here is his out it looks as if she has been unfaithful.
It does. Joseph, whatever his age would not want to Mary a sinful woman. This is precisely why Joseph received the message of reassurance that
Joseph taught Jesus his trade (Carpenter) this was a job for the young and strong of the people of Israel. Because when they where old (30 plus ) average life expectancy of 39 in those day the sons had to support the family. If he Joseph was old then one of his son’s from before Jesus would have supported the family
We don’t know the precise details of who supported the family. However the argument that carpenters gave up work at 30 is false. Yes AVERAGE life expectancies were low due to infant mortality, disease etc., but people still lived and worked up until 70. In poor countries in Africa and Asia, average life expectancy is low now, but people still work to old age.
when Jesus is 11, 12 etc. the greek, and aramaic, and hebrew all refer to mary as the mother of Jesus mother of god places her in a very high position ( Only one church in chritianity calls her mother of god)
Not true. ALL the Ancient churches call Mary Mother of God, Catholic, Eastern orthodox, Oriental orthodox, Armenian, Coptic, Ethiopian etc. So too do most Anglicans, and the Lutheran Church specifically defines her as Mother of God in its Book of Concord. This is because Mother of God is the title that defines the fact that Jesus IS God and also Son of Mary. To deny it is to deny those things, to deny the INCARNATION, and to make oneself outside the bounds of Christianity.
high honor is only reserved for Jesus Christ. In John 2.5 she shows her humanity when she beckons Jesus at the wedding and says they have no w ine He responds WOMEN! this is not my time my hour has not yet come!!!.
The word we translate as WOMAN is not a term of abuse. It could perhaps better be translated LADY.

And although Jesus says. “My hour is not yet come,” He actually does as His mother asks.
Under the law of Moses which Mary and Joseph followed see Luke 2:21 thru Luke 2:35 it would have been a sin for them not to have sexual relations as married people.
Another fallacy.

Living a celibate life within marriage was not unknown in Jewish tradition. It was told that Moses, who was married, remained continent the rest of his life after the command to abstain from sexual intercourse (Ex 19:15) given in preparation the seventy elders abstained thereafter from their wives after their call, and so did Eldad and Medad when the spirit of prophecy came upon them; indeed it was said that the prophets became celibate after the Word of the Lord communicated with them.

Secondly, Jewish marriage is in two parts. The first is the BETROTHAL, this is a first stage of marriage where the two are bound, but are not ALLOWED to have sexual relations. This is the only stage that is mentioned in the bible. Even when Mary and Joseph travel to bethlehem just before Jesus birth, scripture still only describes them as BETROTHED. The second stage, the Canopy wedding, which permits sex, is never mentioned in scripture.

Thirdly Numbers 30 sets out precise conditions under which a vow such as of Virginity can be made by a wife, and must be honoured by her husband.
Everthing about mary you sent me is about past century conferences that proclaim her propetual virginity, but has no direct scripture verses proving her life time of virginity. If God wanted us to see her as a perfect virginal person it would have been written in scripture.
If God wanted us to believe the Trinity, it would be in scripture too, right?
The fact that the Catholic church teaches this and there is no scripture to back up its claim. it reminds me of the curse in revelations DO NOT ADD OR SUBTRACT FROM GODS WORD OR THERE WILL BE A CURSE UPON YO U.
Inaccurate quote. the curse applies only to the Book of Revelation, as the Bible wasn’t assembled yet! The Bible was assembled by the Catholic Church in 382 AD at the Councils of Hippo and Carthage. if your friend reads the Bible he will see that Jesus’s teaching authority was granted not to a bok, but to the Church He founded.
In closing Jesus despised the acts fo the religous high priest… They are a brood of Vipers he said. Ask yourself this? every man and women in the bible except Jesus was a fallen human person. Jesus was perefect, holy, without sin how can one say Mary was perfect like Jesus. !!!
Mary gave Jesus His human nature. Did she give Jesus a sinful nature?
 
Joe,

Somebody posted something that might be germane on an anti-Catholic forum that I subscribe to.
To argue against Mary’s perpetual virginity is to suggest something else that is greatly implausible, not to say unthinkable: that neither Mary nor her protector, Joseph, would have deemed it inappropriate to have sexual relations after the birth of God in the flesh. Leaving aside for a moment the complete uniqueness of the Incarnation of the Second Person of the Trinity, recall that it was the practice for devout Jews in the ancient world to refrain from sexual activity following any great manifestation of the Holy Spirit…

Mary became the vessel for the Lord of Glory Himself, and bore in the flesh Him whom heaven and earth cannot contain. Would this not have been grounds to consider her life, including her body, as consecrated to God and God alone? Or it more plausible that she would shrug it all off and get on with keeping house in the usual fashion?..

And then there is Joseph’s character to consider. Surely his wife’s miraculous conception and birthgiving (confirmed by the angel in dream-visions) and the sight of God incarnate in the face of the child Christ would have been enough to convince him that his marriage was set apart from the norm… If touching the ark of the covenant had cost Uzzah his life, and if even the scrolls containing the Law, the Psalms, and the Prophets were venerated, certainly Joseph, man of God that he was, would neither have dared nor desired to approach Mary, the chosen of Israel, the throne of God, to request his ‘conjugal rights’! "
The quote is from an Orthodox site:

goarch.org/en/ourfaith/articles/article9174.asp

Hope it helps.
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Hi Joe,

I highly recommend Hail, Holy Queen by Scott Hahn. In that book you’ll find answers to all of your friend’s objections.

God bless,

JoAnna
 
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