Mary's virginity ?

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Our tradition regarding Joseph and Mary does not come from the Protoevangelium of James, but rather, much of the Protoevangelium comes from Church Tradition. No one would ever claim that the information recorded in the Gospels was unknown in the Church until Matthew, Mark, Luke and John wrote down their accounts. Neither were details of the lives of Joseph an Mary unknown, although it was primarily at Jerusalem where that knowledge was maintained.
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Well said.

The Protoevangelium of James is a partial writing down of Tradition, but according to the church there are some strong exaggerations an inaccuracies introduced by the author. Not everything in it is an exaggeration, but readers ought to be careful not to use the Protoevangelium as a sure guide to the Faith or history.
 
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-Jews and Pseudochristians CONSTANTLY use her offering as FALSE evidence Mary was a sinner.
I’ve seen Mary attacked on this point several times, but the bottom line is that scripture does not even say she offered a sin offering; rather it says “they offered” (plural).

Scripture does not say the purification of her (Mary), but the purification of them, eg: including Jesus and Joseph. Notice the word for “them” is not feminine, but masculine. It is a word that may or not include Mary, according to grammar rules.

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-Each time we listen to Satan and his children’s influence, we entertain such ideas that Mary had more children. God will not stop us from this. We must use our free will responsibly because if Mary had one more child, she would have been in sin.
I think this point is going to be very hard for many people to understand.
When I speak with people with protestant backgrounds, they generally have a difficulty based on the fact that Joseph was told to take Mary as his wife. eg:
Matthew 1:20 “an angel appeared to him in a dream saying… take Mary as your wife”

They sometimes think that Joseph was required to consummate the marriage at some point or she would not be his wife, and that the “do not fear” part indicates Joseph would not be harmed for touching the “ark” of the covenant.

Given this issue, I’d like to make a couple of humble remarks.
Men can continue to have sexual relations with a woman even when she is pregnant, and although I won’t go into detail; people generally thought that conception was a process in ancient times. So, the fact that Luke tells us explicitly that Joseph refused to have sexual relations with Mary during her pregnancy is quite remarkable in terms of ancient thought. Joseph clearly did not take the angels message as a command to have sexual relations, but instead refused.
-Remeber, ritually unclean is NOT a sin and doesnt make the flesh unclean or changed. Jesus implies many times that the Law of Moses has been compromised.
We may need to have a deeper discussion of this point in another thread.
I don’t think I can do it justice here, but I don’t think the law itself was compromised; rather I think the interpretation that the Pharisees were applying to it was against God’s actual desires for the law.

If Jesus was in fact condemning the Law of Moses, then at least one of the charges brought against him by the Sanhedrin as grounds for execution would be sustained.
That can’t really be the case.

The strongest example of such an abuse would be marriage and divorce for “any whimsical reason at all.” Jesus does give a correction, but it is still rooted in the writings and court case precedents found in the law of Moses.
Jesus says above that his mother was able to hear Gods word, and observe it - This implies she fulfilled the Law perfect as a woman. Keep in mind this was before Acts and the upper room etc.
Yes.
-Since we no do not Judge sin by the Law, it would be foolish to judge Mary as a sinner based on the Law because we immediatly become cursed when we do such things. However, putting ourselves into the ‘middle of the story’ while Jesus is in the process of fulfilling the Law, Mary also plays a huge role.
Mary was under the law at that time, so she would be judged by the law.
However, do not forget that scripture says of several people that they were “upright and blameless before the law.”; This includes both Zecharias, Elizabeth, and even Joseph (Mary’s husband).

So, as I pointed out above; when it comes the sin offering, scripture actually does not place Mary as having a personal sin. Rather, she is part of a group of three people who had to wait a certain period of time before entering the temple.

She did not, however, make an offering for sin; Rather she only made the ransom offering for her son, Jesus. The reason for her not making two offerings, one for sin, and one more for ransom, is clearly that the law of Moses did not apply to her birthing.
eg: because her virginity remained intact even at child-birth. She did not bleed or rupture in the way a normal woman does when giving birth. That’s the Tradition of the church. God preserved her virgintity before, during, and after giving birth to Jesus.
Therefore, Mary did not need to make a sin offering like a normal woman would have.

… More at a later time.
Blessings to you.
 
So. considering all these things, do you REALLY BELIEVE Mary was having casual, lustful relations at home when GOD HIMSELF empregnated her womb? Joseph had a visitation? Considering the spilled seed stuff ontop of all this and other suerstitions. Considering all the Pagan beliefs on secuality, transfer of spirits, etc? This SHOULD BE common sense.
I don’t think sexual relations can be called lustful under all circumstances. Lustful is an excessive drive or focus. So if God says for a man to marry a woman in a sexual sense; then doing so can’t be lust.

Eating, for example, is normal and good. Yet, if one takes it to excess – then it becomes a lust. We call that form of lust “gluttony”; but the principle is the same.
God blesses marriage, and the begetting of children. For that reason, not all marriage is automatically lustful.

On the other hand; The scriptural issue that I see, is that dreams are a matter of interpretation. They are not the same as outright appearances of angels to a person as a direct manifestation in the physical world. Yet, Scripture tells us that Joseph received his message in a dream. That implies that he couldn’t be absolutely certain of the full meaning of the message.

He did nothing wrong in taking her as his promised wife; yet her pregnancy still meant that another had claim on her.

Consider a simple case: Abraham and Sarah in Egypt, or Isaac and Rebekka. Although Pharaoh was tempted to take the woman to be his wife; in both cases, God did not allow Pharaoh to have carnal relations with her even after she was taken into custody. Because God prevented the sexual union, he could still have mercy on that particular Pharaoh and not pour out his wrath.

It’s a similar thing, here, with Joseph. Someone else clearly had a claim on Mary, and all Joseph had was a dream saying that he should not put off the wedding.
What if I told you that just IMPLYING Jesus had brothers or sister, puts dishonor on Jesus…
I do not personally believe Jesus had brothers or sisters; not even step brothers from Joseph. He only had cousins or relatives by covenant.
Although I could be wrong on this issue, and others are free to hold other opinions (eg: it’s not church teaching that Joseph had no children by a different wife); I still do not understand why merely implying Jesus had siblings makes him dishonored.

Or – Do you mean, biological brothers and sisters from Mary?
that Jesus himself implies red letter… and furthermore ties this dishonor to ‘unbelief’. And yes he’s talking about US! See Mark 6:1-10? if you dont believe me. Try to see the OBVIOUS reason it dishonors Jesus. This is the 2 edge sword of the Bible.
But, Jesus is both honored and glorified by being the firstborn among many “brothers.”
Romans 8:14 and Romans 8:29. (The whole chapter is good to read for context.)

The only lack of glory found in Mark 6:1-10, is that the brothers mentioned do not believe in him.

Some of the Orthodox visiting our site, here, however, I think claim the bishop of Jerusalem (James) who was consecrated by Peter and John (apostles); was a child of St. Joseph from a prior marriage.

That would mean that the Orthodox believe that the bishop of Jerusalem was one of the unbelievers mentioned in Mark 6:3.

To the Orthodox, I think what you are insinuating is not acceptable. For, Jesus would be glorified by James’s conversion of heart after the crucifixion and resurrection.

Blessings to you.
 
The only lack of glory found in Mark 6:1-10, is that the brothers mentioned do not believe in him.

Some of the Orthodox visiting our site, here, however, I think claim the bishop of Jerusalem (James) who was consecrated by Peter and John (apostles); was a child of St. Joseph from a prior marriage.

That would mean that the Orthodox believe that the bishop of Jerusalem was one of the unbelievers mentioned in Mark 6:3.

To the Orthodox, I think what you are insinuating is not acceptable. For, Jesus would be glorified by James’s conversion of heart after the crucifixion and resurrection.
James is certainly not numbered among the brothers who did not believe. What you have claimed above is not according to the Orthodox Tradition.
 
James is certainly not numbered among the brothers who did not believe. What you have claimed above is not according to the Orthodox Tradition.
What?? I didnt know we believe in that! I’m definitely NOT ON BOARD with Joseph having other sons and marriages. No way! I’ll tell my priest i wont have anything to do with that.

Read Mark 6 - he says that only his relatives and his hometown and house dishonor him - that could be speaking of us as Orthodox. Obviously he means in the house of Christiany at least. Why claim that Joseph had children from other marriages when you dont have to? We dont want Joseph being defiled from other marriages and have taken on unclean spirits. It opens so many doors for lewdness.

Look, when we were children we knew the Truth. Joseph and mary went Bthlehem to a manjor where the baby Jesus lay his head etc. It was always the three of them. Joseph was likely younger also and Holy because he helped Mary fulfill the law for Jesus sake. The pictures depict him as OLDER to signify they did NOT have relations.

And this opens up a HUGE slew of problems that dont need to be there. Ask anyone on the street about this and they know through Gods Truth that Joseph and Mary had 1 boy and Joseph and Mary didnt have relations. Look how blessed and chosen they were.

Our nuns and monks and priests dont have relations or even spill seed until this very day. Imagine back then if you were Holy and literally raising God. What does Jesus say in Mark 6 when we sit and make unproven accusations at Jesus about relatives? He says it dishonours him, and then associates them with unbelievers.

Remember Jesus was ASTONISHED at the unbelief of those making the claims of his family. Get it? When the MOST HOLIEST OF THE ANNOINTED TEACHERS IN THE ORTHODOX CHURCH MAKE THESE CLAIMS, JESUS IS ASTONISHED, AMAZED, AT THEIR UNBELIEF AND KNOWS OUR DISHONOR!
 
  1. In Luke 11:28, the Greek word for “rather” doesn’t mean “What you have said is wrong, and what I am going to say is right.” It usually means, “What you have said is true but insufficient, and I’m going to tell you something more fully true.” You could probably translate it as something like, “That’s true, but…”
The same word gets used by Paul in Romans 9:20 and Romans 10:18. Amusingly, you get old translation people translating it in one instance as “nay, but” and then in the next one as “yea, verily.” One of these things is not like the other!
  1. Actually, you don’t have to go to some kind of shady mother goddess worship to explain the woman’s remark. There was a fair amount of traditional Jewish prophecy (mostly non-Biblical) about the Messiah’s mother, and there’s a fair amount of stuff about the Messianic mom in post-Jesus Judaic stuff. For example, there was one story where the Messiah’s mom was going to be leading troops and slaying people with her holy magical weaponry. Since Jewish women believed in getting saintly help from the Biblical matriarchs (particularly Rachel, whose tomb is still a place of pilgrimage), obviously they were going to be enthused about this sort of thing.
But I don’t think you even have to go that far. It was pretty typical in the ancient world to praise someone by saying how lucky their parents were to have had them, how great a son he must be, how lucky their hometown was to have them in it, how happy their house must be to have them within the walls, and so forth. You still hear this today - “You’re such a good boy. You must be a comfort to your parents.”

Saying Jesus’ mom was blessed was a more extreme version of this, and is intended in the Bible to show yet another person whom God is using as a prophet, speaking the exact truth without knowing it. It doesn’t say anything about whether the woman is good or bad; it just says that she is prophetically truthful.
 
James is certainly not numbered among the brothers who did not believe. What you have claimed above is not according to the Orthodox Tradition.
Prodomos, I was merely reading what you and others said in other threads.
If I misunderstood that Joseph had another marriage, then please clarify;
for you said:
Orthodox Tradition states that Salome, the wife of Zebedee and mother of James and John, was one of the daughters of Joseph the betrothed. This makes perfect sense when reading Matt 20:20-21, as only an older sister would have the boldness to ask of Jesus what she did.
Therefore, I understood from you, that you do believe Joseph the betrothed had other children and extended family. I took your sentence above to mean that Salome is a “sister” of the Lord, but potentially not among those mentioned in Mark 6:3 when it says “are not his sisters here with us?”

The English words “brother’s and sister’s” of the lord are merely the masculine and feminine form of the same word “adelphos” or “adelphe” in Greek.

If Salome is a relative through Joseph called “sister”, then both James her son; and also the other James, the bishop of Jerusalem; would clearly be “brothers”; Cf. Galatians 1:19.

I understood James the bishop of Jerusalem to be included by reference in Mark 6:3 for the following reason:

The point of Mark 6, in general, is that Jesus own family which was related to him through Joseph (the Carpenter), did not believe in him before the crucifixion.

Scripture explicitly testifies to the unbelief by some of his “brothers” in other places, such as John 7:2.
His brothers therefore said to Him, “Depart from here and go into Judea, that Your disciples also may see the works that You are doing. For no one does anything in secret while he himself seeks to be known openly. If You do these things, show Yourself to the world.” For even His brothers did not believe in Him
If this is not within the Orthodox tradition, which you have stated has Joseph with at least “daughters”; then please clarify how the Orthodox untangle the knot.

eg: I don’t see why Mark would have mentioned James the son of Zebedee in mark 6:3, for that James is numbered among the twelve and believed in Jesus at all times.
The list is tied to people who associated with unbelievers in Jesus. eg: friends of unbelief.

My point is probably clearer if I note that John, the son of Salome ( a believer ), is carefully excluded from the list in Mark 6:3. I do not see that he would be excluded if believers in the lord were included in that list. He is every bit as much a brother as is James the son of Salome. So, if both James and John are sons of the same mother, and either was mentioned in Mark 6:3 – they ought to both be mentioned.

It’s for this reason that I understand the James in Mark 6:3 is part of the family that were offended at Jesus before the crucifixion and did not believe.

If this is not within Orthodox understanding, then I apologize.
I misunderstood you. Please clarify.
 
Yeah, even I agree with that.
How about looking at this another way.

How RELIABLE were the people making those claims about Jesus? That is my big contention.

REMEMBER, these were people who believed so little, Jesus could NOT perform miracles! And Jesus was ASTONISHED at their unbelief. Many likely took part in killing him. Are these people now going to tell us who Jesus family members are? I think that is the real message here guys.

Why is this so bad?

 
Prodomos, I was merely reading what you and others said in other threads.
If I misunderstood that Joseph had another marriage, then please clarify;
for you said:

Therefore, I understood from you, that you do believe Joseph the betrothed had other children and extended family. I took your sentence above to mean that Salome is a “sister” of the Lord, but potentially not among those mentioned in Mark 6:3 when it says “are not his sisters here with us?”

The English words “brother’s and sister’s” of the lord are merely the masculine and feminine form of the same word “adelphos” or “adelphe” in Greek.

If Salome is a relative through Joseph called “sister”, then both James her son; and also the other James, the bishop of Jerusalem; would clearly be “brothers”; Cf. Galatians 1:19.

I understood James the bishop of Jerusalem to be included by reference in Mark 6:3 for the following reason:

The point of Mark 6, in general, is that Jesus own family which was related to him through Joseph (the Carpenter), did not believe in him before the crucifixion.

Scripture explicitly testifies to the unbelief by some of his “brothers” in other places, such as John 7:2.

If this is not within the Orthodox tradition, which you have stated has Joseph with at least “daughters”; then please clarify how the Orthodox untangle the knot.

eg: I don’t see why Mark would have mentioned James the son of Zebedee in mark 6:3, for that James is numbered among the twelve and believed in Jesus at all times.
The list is tied to people who associated with unbelievers in Jesus. eg: friends of unbelief.

My point is probably clearer if I note that John, the son of Salome ( a believer ), is carefully excluded from the list in Mark 6:3. I do not see that he would be excluded if believers in the lord were included in that list. He is every bit as much a brother as is James the son of Salome. So, if both James and John are sons of the same mother, and either was mentioned in Mark 6:3 – they ought to both be mentioned.

It’s for this reason that I understand the James in Mark 6:3 is part of the family that were offended at Jesus before the crucifixion and did not believe.

If this is not within Orthodox understanding, then I apologize.
I misunderstood you. Please clarify.
Your assumption is that when Scripture mentions that “His brothers didn’t believe”, it necessarily means ALL His brothers. James the son of Joseph was not one of the twelve but neither was he unbelieving.
 
How about looking at this another way.

How RELIABLE were the people making those claims about Jesus? That is my big contention.

REMEMBER, these were people who believed so little, Jesus could NOT perform miracles! And Jesus was ASTONISHED at their unbelief. Many likely took part in killing him. Are these people now going to tell us who Jesus family members are? I think that is the real message here guys.

Why is this so bad?

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It was the Church in Palestine that maintained the traditions regarding the Holy family, not the unbelievers.
 
  1. In Luke 11:28, the Greek word for “rather” doesn’t mean “What you have said is wrong, and what I am going to say is right.” It usually means, “What you have said is true but insufficient, and I’m going to tell you something more fully true.” You could probably translate it as something like, “That’s true, but…”
A person who is not completely correct, is at least partially wrong.
I really did take your idea into account when I made my statement.
Jesus is correcting the woman’s “insufficient” answer.

If she is innocent, he aims her at a higher blessing.
If she is devious, he cuts her off.
The same word gets used by Paul in Romans 9:20 and Romans 10:18. Amusingly, you get old translation people translating it in one instance as “nay, but” and then in the next one as “yea, verily.” One of these things is not like the other!
I would agree, the translators of the KJV, and especially the definitions found in Strongs are inconsistent. But, in both the examples you’re citing, a correction is in fact being made to a partial error.

In Romans 10:18, the phrase being corrected is “did they NOT hear?”

Since Paul is going to prove they did hear; he intends to absolutely contradict an affirmative answer to the previous rhetorical question. That’s why he says “rather”, for the potential expectation/excuse implied by the previous question (not any perceived sarcasm) is in fact wrong. Those mentioned clearly did hear even if they refused to listen. The very fact that God punishes them so severely is proof that they did hear but refused consent. They were “obstinate”.

In Romans 9:20, we have an example that is very difficult to elucidate clearly.
In the passages, God is merciful to Jacob and has pity on Esau (Romans 9:15) but God hardens the heart of Pharaoh. (Romans 9:18.)

Conflicts in Augustinian, Calvinist, and Thomist theologies are going to make Romans 9:20 a very difficult verse to use as a clear example. We’re likely to have people disputing anything anyone says based on pre-conceived notions rather than coming to a convincing conclusion.

The issue is also that “hate” mentioned in Romans 9:13 is so strongly misinterpreted, that there is no clear contrast by the time we reach Romans 9:20.

Pharaoh spoke back against God, but neither Jacob nor Esau (the man) does so in the end.

As to “rather”:
Paul essentially has an imaginary speaker say “God has no right to find fault, for no one can resist his will.” and then he corrects this rhetorical accusation with “rather”.
In the original Greek.

But look carefully: In Romans 9:20’s the verb in Greek is actually negative, eg: "the thing formed will not say, ‘why have you made me like this!’ "

Translators totally butcher this verse in various ways in order to preserve a theological tradition. But, Paul is in fact reversing a previous argument and saying that it is almost entirely wrong.

Rather than get into a deep discussion here, I would suggest you look for clearer examples of what you wish to prove from scripture passages which are less controversial. I think, as a matter of apologetics to a wide audience, that it is better to show grammar in places where all people agree to the interpretation. That is going to be far more convincing than trying to extract points from controversial passages.
  1. Actually, you don’t have to go to some kind of shady mother goddess worship to explain the woman’s remark.
I did say, “if the woman were innocent, then…”
But I don’t think you even have to go that far. It was pretty typical in the ancient world to praise someone by saying how lucky their parents were to have had them, how great a son he must be, how lucky their hometown was to have them in it, how happy their house must be to have them within the walls, and so forth. You still hear this today - “You’re such a good boy. You must be a comfort to your parents.”
Correct, the woman’s compliment is not about Jesus’s mother. It’s about Jesus.
That’s exactly my point. Jesus’ mother is merely an excuse for this rude woman to open her mouth.
Saying Jesus’ mom was blessed was a more extreme version of this, and is intended in the Bible to show yet another person whom God is using as a prophet, speaking the exact truth without knowing it. It doesn’t say anything about whether the woman is good or bad; it just says that she is prophetically truthful.
I don’t see that it says she is truthful. Whether she’s truthful or not depends on whether or not she really is talking about Jesus’ mother; or if she intends a different meaning: “I’d love to have a man as powerful as you on my breast and womb.”

Even the demons would say things like “I know who you are … the son of God.”
Such a statement, even if truthful, was damaging; and for that reason Jesus silenced many a demon.

You’re overlooking the context of the statement, and that the woman interrupted Jesus’ defense of himself against an accusation of being beelzebub. Jesus had just cast out a demon, and the devil wanted very badly to END Jesus’s discourse.

THAT is the context, when the woman “lifts up/exalts” her voice, and pays Jesus this apparent compliment. She is trying very hard to change the subject as quickly as possible. And for what purpose?
 
Your assumption is that when Scripture mentions that “His brothers didn’t believe”, it necessarily means ALL His brothers. James the son of Joseph was not one of the twelve but neither was he unbelieving.
A simple answer, Salome was related to Jesus on Mary’s side. She was his aunt.
 
Your assumption is that when Scripture mentions that “His brothers didn’t believe”, it necessarily means ALL His brothers. James the son of Joseph was not one of the twelve but neither was he unbelieving.
I call James and John, sons of Zebedee; “brothers”
Hence, I don’t assume all of his brothers were unbelieving.

For that matter, as scripture goes on; Jesus calls me, and you “brothers”.
I clearly understand us, who are in a covenant relationship with Jesus, to be “believers”.

So, you’re way off the mark. Pun intended.
 
A simple answer, Salome was related to Jesus on Mary’s side. She was his aunt.
It’s hard for me to believe Mary had a biological sister, given all the traditions (small t) surrounding the immaculate conception. Do you have a patristic source on that?
 
It’s hard for me to believe Mary had a biological sister, given all the traditions (small t) surrounding the immaculate conception. Do you have a patristic source on that?
Remember, sister doesn’t necessarily mean blood sister.
 
I call James and John, sons of Zebedee; “brothers”
Hence, I don’t assume all of his brothers were unbelieving.

For that matter, as scripture goes on; Jesus calls me, and you “brothers”.
I clearly understand us, who are in a covenant relationship with Jesus, to be “believers”.

So, you’re way off the mark. Pun intended.
You were the one who brought Mark 6:3 as the reference to Jesus’ brothers. Now you’ve gone and moved the goal posts to another country altogether :rolleyes:
 
I call James and John, sons of Zebedee; “brothers”
Hence, I don’t assume all of his brothers were unbelieving.

For that matter, as scripture goes on; Jesus calls me, and you “brothers”.
I clearly understand us, who are in a covenant relationship with Jesus, to be “believers”.

So, you’re way off the mark. Pun intended.
They were not the men mentioned in Mark 6:3. You just made a common mistake.
 
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