Sorry buddy but you are wrong. My Father-in-Law was one. And high up in the ranks also. And his Love for the Pope was unreal.
I will never forget there was a Christmas Eve Mass live on TV with the Pope. My kids had it on and when he walked in the room and saw that he was so upset. He screamed what is he doing on there. My kids were small at the time, were so confused, they knew my Dads love for the Pope and assumed he loved the Pope also. They were like its the Pope Pap doing Christmas. He yelled get him off of there,
So Please do not tell me their love for us. I saw the Love for us first hand, so did my Children. We lived it buddy, They have no Love for the RCC. None at all. Maybe you have to live though the hate to understand the hate. But it is there. And it is Pure hate!
My F-I-L is gone now. But I do pray for him. But even today when I walk into that house I can still feel that silent hate that was still left for me. He wanted my husband to become a Mason and my husband never wanted to. So of course it was my fault. And of course because I was Catholic.
But I believe that God has opened his eyes now, and every time I enter the house I do feel less hate everytime. As I pray as time goes on it will be gone forever. When I enter that house someday and feel a calm peace feeling, I will then know for sure that he is at peace.