Catholicgolfer:
It isn’t a sin for a Lutharan to miss a service because they believe in “faith alone” and that you don’t need the Church for salvation.
The bolded portion of your statement makes no sense. There is no relationship between Sola Fide and what constitutes a sin. For example you can’t say “It isn’t a sin for a Lutheran to commit murder because they believe in faith alone”. Faith alone is a theological doctrine on the nature of salvation; sin is any attitude, thought or act which is knowingly opposed to the will of God.
Keeping the Sabbath holy is a commandment which is still in force regardless of your position on faith alone.
Catholicgolfer:
When I say that he is a strong Lutharan I mean that he is strong in his beliefs. He doesn’t go to “church” very often at all.
Doesn’t sound like a strong Lutheran to me, sounds like a strong independent who likes “his beliefs”. In reality that’s pretty weak.
He also seems to like to pick his fights where he can control the terms. Again, very weak.
Catholicgolfer:
He believes that the Church made missing mass a sin so that it
has control of peoples salvation. (they miss mass, they can’t receive communion without going to confession so the Church has control of the salvation of people.)
There is no clear motive here. We need a motive to explain WHY the Church would do such a thing. What has the Church gained by this alleged “control”? Money? Power? Without an explanation this is just more of “his beliefs” which he is so enamored with.
Catholicgolfer:
I do enjoy a good debate about religion because I know that the Catholic Church is the one, true church set up by Christ.
Good. Stick to that. Tell him that you’d rather trust in the unchanging beliefs that have existed for two thousand years, since the beginning of the Church - not newer inventions of men in the 15th century which have splintered into thousands of denominations. That you trust those same beliefs which were upheld by the giants of the Church throughout the ages(Ignatius, Augustine, de Sales, Assisi, etc etc) who proved themselves through lives of sacrifice and obedience, often to the point of death. And that in the end, talk is cheap and the opinion of some one who can’t even manage to bring himself to church on Sunday simply hasn’t warranted the respect of this 15 year old high school student on matters of faith and morals.
Lastly you might start throwing a few Luther quotes at the “Lutheran”:
“Since the downfall of Popery and the cessation’s of ex-communications and spiritual penalties the people have learned to despise the word of God.
They are no longer for the churches; they have ceased to fear and honor God… I would wish, if it were possible, to leave these men without a preacher or pastor” complained Luther in utter frustration “and let them live like swine.
There is no longer any fear or love of God among them. After throwing off the yoke of the Pope, everyone wishes to live as he pleases.” (Walch ed.)
“I never approved of a schism, nor will I approve of it for all eternity… It is not by separating from the Church that we can make her better."
Martin Luther
Good luck,
Phil