hello again…
a few months ago i posted a thread entitled ‘a new spin on a common question’ which dealt with masturbation, and many of you gave me wonderful answers. anyways since then i’ve been attempting to break the habit, but as can be expected i’ve fallen several times.
so, through reflection, i have come to realize that in my moments when i fall i have a sudden loss of faith; in short, nothing i have heard in the past is enough to convince me that it is a sin.
the two areas which i really doubt are as follows: how masturbation is contratry to natural law and how involved the Holy Spirit was in the Church when the Magisterium has proclaimed it to be a sin.
so please, help me with this…tell me the reasoning behind this teaching or your own personal reasons for rejecting it.
on a side note: how does mortal sin, such as masturbation, effect God’s plan for a person? does every mortal act somehow make our future more and more mutated from what God originally intended, or through a true confession and convergeance of heart will it be as though it never happened?
thank you!!
You’re looking for a particular answer, when you’ve got a perfectly reasonable one before you already. It’s not a sin; it’s not
anything. God placing a desire within us that can’t be satisfied with any relative ease is, if not impossible, very cruel. You can probably cook up a million reasons why it’s bad - let me begin: it might lead to addiction (as with food, but you still eat), it’s not the natural way (Oh, but toddlers do it before they can even comprehend it; it’s indeed in our nature to satisfy it), it incorporates lust, which is a mortal sin (thoughts of pleasure motivate us, they’re enjoyable, they are intrinsically perverse), it seperates us from God (only because someone said that it did - if the good book had said that masturbation brings us closer to God, no one would
feel distant from God), the Bible said so (the bible
said so on a lot of things people cast aside - selling all your possessions, giving to
anyone who asks, turning the other cheek). When the bible says that some animals are unclean and science says “no they’re not,” we postulate an alternative to what was actually meant by that scripture. When the bible says that an act is unclean, and science tells us it’s healthy - it’s best to take the word, not of bronze-age speculation, but of enlightened modern thinkers (you do on everything else: medicine, biology, chemistry, physics). So why not masturbation? It doesn’t have to be a ritual, it can just be relief. No harm, no foul.