Regarding songs and hymns that are “too high” for most men:
This is bunk!
I did a study several years ago. I took the ten contemporary hymns that are used most often in Mass, and I took the ten traditional hymns that Catholics here on CAF mention as their favorites.
I compared the ranges.

The traditional hymns were consistently HIGHER, and had higher notes, often going to the E above middle C and higher.
But here’s the main thing, men–NONE of the hymns in our hymnals, either traditional or contemporary, are too high.
These hymns are all written in a range that altos and basses should be able to attain, even Bass II and Alto II, should be able to attain. If you check out the traditional ranges for Alto and Bass, you will see that the range goes pretty darned HIGH.
Men, you only THINK the hymns are “too high” because YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO SING CORRECTLY!
So what is the answer? Whining here on CAF about “effeminate hymns” and ragging tenors and sopranos? Being lazy and singing all hymns in the “Ol’ Man Ribber” voice?
NO! The answer is—MAN UP AND GO LEARN TO SING!!!
Yes, it makes me mad when intelligent men hold childish, untrue opinions.

Stop making excuses and go learn to sing. That’s all the “too high” thing is–an excuse, and a pretty silly one, since if you learned to sing, you would discover that yes, you CAN hit the notes in most of the hymns in the hymnal. No, you won’t sound like a professional opera soloist, but you will be able to hit these notes without straining your throat or hurting anyone’s ears. Just do it. The time that you spend here on CAF could be spent in a singing class or a with a private voice coach taking a few lessons and learning some proper singing techniques that apparently, you never learned when you were in elementary school (most people under 50 had abysmal music education in the public schools).
I ll accept one excuse for people not singing in church–there are medical conditions that make it difficult for some people, men or women, to sing. COPD is an example. Another example is acalasia, which is what my husband has (but he STILL sings as much as he can during Mass!). A third example is damaged vocal chords due to inflammation, nodules, etc. Allergies can make it difficult to sing. And so can any upper respiratory infection; e.g., a head cold.
But most men and women are able to sing and should try to learn how to do it. It’s not that hard, and it’s kind of fun.
Do you all realize that as the Christians were marched into the Roman arenas to meet their horrific death, they SANG together? I can just imagine modern-day Christians marching in -“This song is too high!” “This song is too effeminate!” “This song has a beat!” “This song is too Protestant/Catholic/secular.” “This song is too ancient!” “I can’t pray if we sing this hymn!” How pathetic we are! IF people about to die at the fangs of the lions can sing, so can we.
C’mon, now. Are we real men and women, or babies? The Church gives us the glorious opportunity to sing hymns
together during our Mass. If we can’t obey Holy Mother Church when it comes to singing hymns, then why do we think we’re going to be able to obey her when it comes to avoiding sin and living like Christ in our daily lives? Singing is a lot easier than trying to live a holy life!