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TheRealJuliane
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Why don’t people just skip the cup if they feel nervous? If all parishes start doing this, my sons will not be able to receive at all. How is that fair?

No, I don’t think it is at all comparable. When distributing communion in the hand, I do not touch the person’s hand, but place the Host on the hand. It’s a totally dry procedure.Since many diseases, flu, colds etc. have beeen proven to be passed by touching an infected persons hands, could not the exact same thing be argued for stopping reception in the hand during the flu season?
It goes both ways.
The Catholic Faithful are instructed the receive from the consecrated host/body of Christ and/or the sacred consecrated blood of Christ. either and/or or both. Ignoring one species incurs no guilt because both are identically the same in Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity.Why don’t people just skip the cup if they feel nervous? If all parishes start doing this, my sons will not be able to receive at all. How is that fair?
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This is true of Eastern Orthodox as well. Everyone recieves from the same spoon the Body and Blood. The spoon is put in everyone’s mouth.You do realise that the Eastern Catholic Churches still , through all these flu alerts, continue to Receive Communion - under both kinds - as normal.
Revolting?No, I don’t think it is at all comparable. When distributing communion in the hand, I do not touch the person’s hand, but place the Host on the hand. It’s a totally dry procedure.
Communion on the tongue? I find my fingers wet more often than I like, usually because the person humps up their tongue at the last minute. It’s revolting. And there’s the occasions when I feel someone breathing on my fingers - germs are carried in the water-vapour of the breath as well, you know.
When my fingers are contaminated with someone’s saliva, I surreptitiously wipe them on my jacket, and switch to using my other hand for a while until I am sure the first hand is dry. I don’t know if other EMHCs are so careful, though. There is always the very real danger of passing infection from one person to the next. The only way to prevent it would be sanitising the hands after each COTT, but I don’t see that catching on.
ushersMy $0.02:
You are probably more likely to get flu from touching the church door handle,
sani-wipestouching a pew,
don’t use 'emor using a missalette than from communion.
So how many churches have tried mandatory instituting all your suggestions before immediately rushing to mess with communion?ushers
sani-wipes
don’t use 'em
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He IS denying the Eucharist to people who can’t consume the regular Host, I’m afraid.Our Bishop has asked us to refrain from hand holding during the Lord’s prayer, shaking hands at the sign of peace, communion on the tongue, and has suspended distribution of the precious blood, all in an effort to keep the flock healthy. I say thank you! He isn’t denying us the Eucharist, after all. When it comes right down to it, where does the importance lie, in the reception of Jesus, or in fulfilling our preference for HOW we receive?
Hi,
This has prompted me to join CA and before I introduce myself need to jump right in with.
My parish has an increasing number of sick with the flu and cold people arriving and sneezing and coughing and then reaching out their hands at the sign of peace. I try to isolate myself but the gentleman who just sneezed and wiped his nose comes and grabs my hand for the Our Father. Now I actually appreciate the gesture but increasingly I am getting paranoid at Mass.
I LOVE going to Mass and have gone daily when possible but there are just too many people who just don’t seem to care and are spreading what ever they have.
I have always been under the impression Sunday Mass is mandatory under threat of sin but are the above enough concern to skip Mass? Yes I have taken other precautions in my life to avoid getting or spreading sickness.
I am quite sure that if you are sick should stay home under no sin, I think…
So could someone who knows please inform me? I searched some threads but seem to have missed it.
Peace
Gitzo