I don’t understand the point you are making by your last two paragraphs when I haven’t even had an issue with the GIRM on returning to the pews after communion. I have said I acknowledge the fact that we have the option. I have only asserted that it is most proper to remain kneeling while the Blessed Sacrament is exposed.
Ok, the spin stops here.
If you are going to get nit-picky about the differences between unity and uniformity then you are clearly missing my point. But I think you knew my point. Whether we call it one or the other the nucleus is that all do one thing. The local bishop and parish priest expect all in the church to do one thing and yet all the bishops and priests are not doing one thing. I don’t care what they are authorized to do or not do. It is frustrating when one goes to one church and are used to adoring the Blessed Sacrament by kneeling which is the preferred method according to the GIRM but then go to another church and everybody is standing according to the option also given by the GIRM. In most of the parishes in the Diocese of San Jose, parishioners are all standing even for the consecration! So I truly don’t think they nor the priest who apparently are instructing them know what they are doing or perhaps they do and don’t care. I wonder what the real reason is why a cleric would prefer standing over kneeling. What is being accomplished by raising someone off their knees before the Lord? What is to be gained?
I am currently in dialogue with Father Serpa on this matter and you will be interested to read his comments. I will try to post them soon after I get something clarified. Needless to say he feels kneeling ater the Agnus Dei is the most appropriate posture. He also indicated that the Eastern Rite Catholics stand but the Tabernacle is behind a large partition of sorts. They don’t show adoration until they receive communion.
I was in college before Vatican 2 ended, so I can understand how people are affected by change, and how feelings develop about posture. I am not trying to make light of it. I get the point about feeling awkward, I get the feeling about consistency.
One of the problems we have had is that our exposure tot he Church has been, for the extreme part, limited only to the Roman rite; and for those of us who were exposed to that prior to Vatican 2, we grew up with the impression that what was disciplinary was doctrinal; that is, the Mass was said a certain way, our postures were specific and uniform, and that was simply “the way it is”.
What many people do not know or else understand, and what some who know don’t want to accept, is that a) the bishop, within the guidelines set forth by Rome, has authority over the liturgy; b) Rome has the authority and has exercised that authority, to give a certain amount of discretion within the rules of the Mass (as set forth in the GIRM) to the bishop as head of the liturgy in his diocese, and the bishops have exercised that authority. The US in fact kneels more than the universal law indicates (during and after the Consecration). that was, in fact, requested by the bishops of the US. and within the discretion given, there have been norms set within the US that vary from the universal norm.
I am also aware that not all bishops “do the red and say the black”; and that others, who may personally do so, do not enforce that within their dioceses. Rome is also aware of that. This causes confusion further, to those who assume that unity means uniformity, and to those who don’t want to change from what “used to be” the rules.
Long ago I was acquainted with the rule “when in Rome, do what the Romans do”. I try to keep that in mind in most situations. I have been in only one or two parishes that stood during the Consecration. I stood. At that point, I did not feel it was my duty to instruct on liturgical rules, and further, it is my humble opinion that by kneeling I would be calling undue attention to myself. Did I want to kneel? Yes. Did I feel kneeling was correct? Yes. Did I think that kneeling was giving more honor to God than standing? In general, yes, but it was not for me to judge the thoughts of others.
On the other hand, as a child (male) I was taught that I was to stand, as a sign of honor, when adults came into the room; so standing was also a sign of honor (and as an aside, it would appear to be a very strong sign within the Church, as in, within the Eastern rites).
I can understand that there is confusion sown within several parishes in a diocese where posture varies from parish to parish. Essentially, there is nothing I can do about that, other than to determine where I may go to Mass, and where I might avoid going if possible.
Rome does not micromanage the Church, and although we may thing it did so 60 years ago, I can assure you, it did not. Neither do the bishops micromanage their parishes. We can all wish they did, but they have other fish to fry, have had, and most likely will have in the future.
Some people are much more sensitive to posture, or to what they think the posture should be, than I am. I try to keep my focus on where I am and why I am there, and let the posture flow. That is not to be a criticism of those who feel strongly about the issue. If it bothers someone, I am not going to tell them to “get over it”. Feelings run deep and are not easily changed.