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XinMinny
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JustAServant,I once heard a fundamentalist preacher say this about any association with Catholics:
The bolded statement is an eye-opening glimpse into the dark pit of the fundamentalist soul. If one believes that he or she has experienced what no other has (being “born again”), and possesses what others other than them could not possibly have (the Holy Spirit), it creates an elitist world-view that allows only those to whom we agree with, to enter.
Over the years, as a fundamentalist myself, I have heard “that person is now a (insert opposition group here), so I had to ’break fellowship’ with them” This is the fundamentalist doctrine of “separation”. A superior, elitist attitude of belonging to a privileged group. Those who do not belong to the group are called “unrepentant brothers and false teachers”
The problem is, that encompasses quite a population if one takes that to its logical conclusion.
This encompasses people far beyond hated Catholics and liberals. It also includes people within their own ‘circle’ with whom they disagree. To belong to this ever shrinking circle becomes the object they strive for.
In rationalizing that Christians who don’t agree with you are all “compromisers,” they assume that is the indicator of true spirituality.
They truly believe they are superior.
This theological “rigidity” is more important than all other factors. And sadly, there is a trail of broken relationships in their past that is blamed on the actions of the people they “separated” from. Tragically, these broken relationships include family members and former friends…
I believe one of the reasons fundamentalists think this way has to do with living in a fantasy world of their own making.
They look to a reality that never existed, and hope for a Utopia that never will exist.
When struck by the fact that it does not, it destroys their illusions and they lapse into cynicism and depression. They deal with this by altering reality through ‘separation’ from whatever or whoever is not like themselves and an end-times fairy tale which allows them to press on in world that does not accept them.
“Fellowshipping” with a group who truly believe they are better than others can be a surreal experience. It leads logically to exclusion based on reasons that hardly fit into their “Biblical world-view”. Many times it is based on race, class, education, and sex.
The sad part is, the longer one “fellowships” with fundamentalists, “separation” from them becomes a relief.
I respect highly your analysis, especially as to the affects of negative thinking toward others. This practice frightens me. In part because I believe it is possible in all people, all groups. In fact, I find I want to guard against it in myself.
And, as a non-Catholic who occasionally reads this board, I would like to very respectfully suggest that some Catholic people have this attitude toward non-Catholics as well. I am speaking of “We have the truth. We are the True way. You are disobedient, rebellious…” It may be true that a person believes that someone else’s faith was born of a desire to listen to their own thoughts rather than someone who may have had authority over them. But, to call those who follow such a person “rebellious” can lead to the same kind of sad, lonely life you have described above.
Someone pointed out to me that Jesus laid aside His garments and washed the desciples’ feet because He knew that “He came from God and was going to God.” That is in John 13. The thought passed along was that He was very secure in His relationship to His Father, so He could conduct His life in the way He did. I would like to have that saem inward security that would allow all my discussions to be quiet, reasoned, and with respect for those with whom I am visiting. I want a big tent in my life, regardless of who believes what…
Sorry to be lengthy.
Minny